Ah, yeah, you're going to hear those because the exhaust manifolds hide the sounds. Headers help bring them back around. Another benefit to headers!

probably an oil change since over due to fix it

ok so oil change quited it down, but its still there, i only have 8000 miles on my engine...

Any ideas?

I hear my valves a lot more too. It'* simply something that comes with headers. Not sure why, but it happens. Perhaps you can wrap the headers? Also, your 95 engine may simply be louder because it'* the first year of the Series 2.

its not a cool sound haha, did anyone find any way to hide it?

None that I know of. Wrapping the headers might help, and perhaps putting Dynamat everywhere in the engine bay and on the underside of the hood may help, but otherwise I'm sure there'* not that much to do.