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Old 07-18-2006, 10:56 PM   #31
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Holy hell with the PM'* people, lol. I didn't get any word from Work as of yet. I know I don't have 2 weeks available, but I think I will take them anyhow and go without pay.


I think I will attempt to make a couple of calls tonight to make some arrangements.

Hmmm who should I call first, and what time zone are they in, lol.
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Old 07-18-2006, 11:57 PM   #32
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Damn it, man...
I wish I could keep my friends from being hurt, or at least knew how to help you with this.
I think maybe WCBF is a good idea. If nothing else, it might let you get some distance and perspective on this.
I'll keep you in my thoughts.
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Old 07-19-2006, 12:15 AM   #33
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My current situation is totally screwy. Not even going to try and explain it.


Basically my parents even think that this trip would be a good idea.


I really think she is having a problem with the fact that she is probably going to loose me completely, but that is her choice.
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Old 07-19-2006, 12:19 AM   #34
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Just go on the trip Mike (hope it'* okay if I call you MIke). Your personal life is more important than your job, jobs can be easily found. Plus riding with Boosty and Tracy and Sonoma sounds like an absolute blast, wish I could go.

Have fun dude and here'* a beer. *hands beer to MIke*
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(hope it'* okay if I call you MIke).
Well that IS my name after all.

Alright after about 40 hours awake with about 30 mins sleep, I need to crash HARD, lets just hope I can sleep through the night.
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Buy my Bonneville while you're down south of where you are, it'll be for sale soon :o (kidding!... but not kidding about the for sale soon part)

Do what you have to do, Mike. What doesn't kill you only makes you stronger.
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Okay, first off, this grinds my nerves: It'* not LOOSE, it'* LOSE. Bolts get loose, you lose your girlfriend, that'* life, that'* the way it works. Okay, now onto advice: Let her go. It sounds like you're being sensible about your combined expenses and financial worries. I applaud you. I've seen people break up and be horrible to each other, (heck, I've been the horrible guy before) and you just DON'T need to do that. You don't need to be that kind of person. When you have a choice of taking the high road or the low road, take the high road every time. When you look back on this ten, fifteen, and twenty years from now, you'll be glad you did. Get your stuff back, give her back her stuff, stop paying for her bills, get her to agree to pay you whatever she'* going to agree to pay you, and make sure she does it. Small claims court is usually there if you need it for claims up to around $5000 at least in the US. But be civil.

We're all just humans sharing space on this planet, and if she doesn't want to share her space with you any more, just be glad you're onto it now, so you can move on and put your life back together. There'* absolutely nothing worse than being in a relationship with someone who doesn't want to be in it with you, and there'* absolutely nothing better than being in a relationship with someone who does want to be in it with you. So "cut bait" and let this fish go. I know about being the kind of person who needs a companion. But this isn't the right one, and this is your great big flashing neon sign telling you. We're all here for you. I've been through my false-start relationships, but I can tell you that finding the right one, being together for 17 years and married for 10 and a half and we now have a year and a half old boy, -you owe it to yourself to let this one go and move on.
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I think I will attempt to make a couple of calls tonight to make some arrangements.

Hmmm who should I call first, and what time zone are they in, lol.
Screw time zones, that'* one of the few perks of your situation...

"What the..., do you know what time it is??"
"Oh, I'm sorry. You said I should call, and well, I was kinda upset and didn't realize...."



(You gotta try and laugh when ya can, bud)
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I think I will attempt to make a couple of calls tonight to make some arrangements.

Hmmm who should I call first, and what time zone are they in, lol.
Screw time zones, that'* one of the few perks of your situation...

"What the..., do you know what time it is??"
"Oh, I'm sorry. You said I should call, and well, I was kinda upset and didn't realize...."



(You gotta try and laugh when ya can, bud)
Time zones matter to Boost!! Don't call him after 10:00 pm central or he will call you back at 5:30 am central.

Bugsi- I like your advice to Mike! I agree with everything you've said especially the take the high road and be the better person part.
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Well I called Billboost first, then singscountry1967, of course while this was going on, I get a call from Willwren. So I had Willwren on my cell and singscountry1967 on my land line.


I got a response from work and they didn't get my first request, they basically said that they have no problem with that due to my situation and that they were going to be off those 2 weeks also.


OH here is a twist. 2 am the phone rings, it was her, we talked for over 2.5 hours. We went thought the usual chat about stuff, and I pretty much told her I was leaving for 2 weeks not one, and she had to pause and she didn't like that. I told her that by the time I get back in 2 weeks, she will probably be over me and be more distant from me, again she didn't like that. I told her that while I am going I HAVE to distance myself from her emotionally ( try anyhow) and to get over her to a point that I don't need her at all. Once again, it hit her kinda hard. I kept reminding her, that she made her choice and that this was just part of the consequences. I told her that as much as I would like to be there for her, she needs to get the whole package when it comes to this( breaking up) even if it makes her feel bad. So since she is still in contact with me, I am able to take the time to say what I feel I have to say to get over this. So she is kinda my support in this thing too ( odd I know) but I am also able to ask her anything and she will tell me the truthful answer, that way I am not guessing what she might have said).

We have gone through ALOT together, I mean I started dating her when she was still in high school. I told her that once again I will teach her the right and wrong about this situation. Since she has never gone through this and I have, I will still try and give her guidance through it and show her warning signs of things going bad with the other guy.

Basically told her I get a bad feeling about him, and to ALWAYS make sure she has an out. She can more than handle herself but told her to be careful, and if she is in a bad situation, do what she has to, to get away from him and get out. I also told her that if he hurts her in any way that I would rip his limbs off, and she had to laugh at that one. She is also aware that I will start carrying my baseball bat in my car again. I used to carry it YEARS ago when I had my truck, and I felt that it was time to once again keep it with me.

I also had to tell her that she knows that I would answer her phone call no matter what time of day/night it was except fro if I was in bed with another woman, she didn't' know what to say to that, but through our entire relationship we have both been honest with each other, well I kinda hid my speeding tickets from her but that is another story. So even in the breakup, we are keeping our honesty.

Best part (that I can remember) is that he asked her to promise him that she would never sleep with me again, she said she could make that promise ( especially since she would have broken that promise later on that day due to the uhhh goodby "visit"). She also said that even if he asked she wouldn't have told him cause it was none of his business, BUT that if I wanted to know anything about him to ask and she will tell me. OH yeah I almost forgot, she was even wearing the bracelet that she got with my name on it, she was the one who paid for them, since I have one with her nickname on it. He seen it on her and I know he didn't like it, but she didn't take it off.


She already knows that I feel this is a bad thing and that I doubt I will be there in the end, but she also told me that she is even unsure of what she is doing. I appreciate the advice from everyone, but I can't just drop everything with her, cause she made me a promise to pay for everything and I know she will no matter how long it takes her to work it off. BUT don't think for a minute that I am not going to try and meet other people, cause I am. I told her that I am definitely going to try to meet other people and see what happens. So everything is out in the open from us and we will see how this goes. Maybe 2 months, 6 months, who knows. I did have a chat with her mother last night since she wasn't home yet and let her mother know about the situation since she didn't' know anything yet. I figured Renee would get upset that I told her but she didn't.

Now I am just going on and on here.


So the moral of the story Out of this whole situation, I was basically told that I can keep everything, including the car which I won't since she needs that to get to work ( no work, no pay, no bills get paid), BUT I know this might seem odd, I got to keep her Ninja 500 that she just bought and I was fixing up for her. Plus it was already transfered into my name minutes after she gave me the title.

AND


I am free for take off for 2 weeks from work. As long as Murphy doesn't stick his head in anything, I will be seeing Tracy and Billboost sometime Saturday.
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