haha well should I thank you for the complient or call ya a conceited bastid? jk

Im kinda wondering though how she knows about bonnevilleclub???? Ive been trying to think of ways she could. ?? inquiring minds wanna know.

That one there has got me Stumped!!!

It sounds to me like you're looking for something better, without being honest with your current girlfriend about how you feel about her.

Very selfish in my opinion.

I have to agree with Vital on this one. I'm glad you found someone who seems like a nice person, but you shouldn't even be seriously looking without telling your current gf. Cheating is cheating there isn't much around that and it'* too bad you don't care enough about your current girl to buck up and do what you should do.

Ok before this turns into a bashing of sorts, which I feel it might head that way, no one can truly understand the way I feel and what is currently my situation without me having to sit here and type for hours on end to explain my situation from the begining(I also dont feel I need to) however, as I stated before hand, I know that some of you might not agree and thats understandable since you have your right to voice your opinion.

While it may appear that I am "going for someone better" this is not the case at all. I understand whats at risk here and at the moment im willing to take it. As an adult, I feel that my decsions and my actions are appropriate for the current circumstance that I am in.

Kudos for those of you who approve and are happy for me and for those who may think im going about it the wrong way, you just dont understand.

Dont get me wrong, I appreciate your input, but I have thought and thought and thought about this time and again as well as lost allot of sleep over this and I feel that I am doing the best that I can given the situation.

Im a victim in this also, so its not just one sided.

PJ: im not "seriously looking" for anything!! This just happened. Making that statement proves to me that you have no clue where im coming from.

Also, who said anything about not caring about my current GF? Theres over 6 years of history and to say that "I dont care" is innacurate!!

Well said there Tony. In life, yes we sometimes make quote un quote bad choices. But this seems more of a thing that just happened. It doesn't seem as though Tony was out looking for this, it just kind of fell into his lap. I've been in a similar situation and i can understand where he is coming from.

Thanks Leslie!!

Tony, I'm not here to criticise but keep in mind that you took it upon yourself to bring this into an open forum. Remember the phrase "you can't please all the people all the time"? You do what'* best for yourself, but please keep those close to you in mind. Put yourself in there position and hope for the best.

I wish you all the best.


Frank

Thanks Frank. I appreciate it. I am thinking of the people closest to me which is why this has been such an emotional rollercoaster ride.

Lord I hope shes not near Syracuse NY. My sister-in-law'* friend lures guys she meets on the internet with pictures of her cousin. This girl eventually meets them at the airport and says "well this is what I really look like. Since you came down for the weekend how about you stick around and we'll have all the sex you want before you leave."

This girl is tall, ugly, obese, and so hairy she has to shave her beard and one eyebrow. NASTY. Its the only way she'* ever gotten a man. She says most of the guys leave right then and there but there is the occasional one that stays the weekend <gag>.

I am NOT making this up.

OMG geesh well Shes definately not from NY. thank god. She sent me a few pics but I deleted them like an idiot. When I talk to her later, Ill get another pic and maybe post it if everyone plays nice