Howdya know? LMFAO@Jim.

You know, funny thing is, I told her about the Bonnveville club and how im into my car allot, and she said she knows of BC Very WEIRD

I was going to ask how she knew about it but she had to go. Ill get more info next time I talk to her I guess. Probably not until later tonight.

just don't rush into anything. All we want for you and each other is happiness. Only you know what will make you happy.

hey watch out man... my ex ex ex girl busted me "chating" with another female on the net... the beach about it was she was the other chick..... females are pretty smart!!!

Hmmm....wonder how she know'* about BC? Gotta fill us in on that one!

Im not sure, but I guess I will find out later on when I talk to her

Im taking things slowly and not rushing into anything. Were both a looooong way from anything serious should it go to that level. I would like to meet her sooner rather than later, and weve spoken about it numerous times, but not sure how soon im going to meet her.

<Looks about 700 miles from Tony> Hmmmmmmmm

In all honesty...cheating begins in the heart. You don't have to physically touch/sleep with someone to be unfaithful...

now, I'm not going to bust on you, but i'm advising you... an online relationship will hurt equally as much to the gf.

The real key to this whole thing is that it'* heighted your awareness. Chances are this 700mile relationship is not going to work out (sorry to be blunt). But...BUT...everything happens for a reason...and this relationship was likely sent your way to open your eyes about your current situation.

Do be honest with the current gf...as my ex-hubby put it to me, "...we both know something'* been missing from our relationship for a long time. I've met someone that makes me feel so much differnt... it'* nothing physical, but the way she makes me feel has made me realize that what we are doing isn't working."

And by the way... my ex went on to marry that person who was making him feel special. And i'm happy for him. I'm even happier for me! His realization of our situation was the best thing that ever happened to me.

But you have to be honest about it... seriously...Been there...done that...got the tee-shirt

While you make some valid points, im not yet ready to tell my GF.

Long distance relationships usually dont work out, but if I could get the chance to meet her and see how we are in person, things might just go for the better or for the worse. I wont know until I reach that point.

Right now my heart is telling me to go, but im not emotionally, or mentaly ready to take that step. There are some things I have to think about and it could get very complicated for everyone involved.


If I tell her too soon, that could also be a bad thing, but if I tell her when im emotionally and mentaly ready, I feel it will go a bit smoother.

I just would like to make clear that even if I had not met this person online, I still would feel the same and go about things the same as I am. Its just that we happened to chat one night and here I am 3 weeks later posting about it to my BC family lol.

I know that some here wont agree with me, but im an adult and I feel that I am making the right decisions for the time being given my current situation. Theres allot of different equations that I have to think about before making this a final thing. I hope those that who oppose will understand that each individual situation is different, and I think im going about it level headed and for the moment, the best way that I can

That describes everyone online..even me!
don't get too excited yet

lol skippy