Oh....Oh!..........If that'* the case then take my advice and put on your bullet proof vest my friend.
Either way, congrats.

LOL nooo were not even going out. I just think that this girl is special and makes me feel alive. I want to meet her but the distance thing is kind of in the way. I have been thinking of leaving my current gf for some time and now that my landlord wants to sell the condo, I have to be out by Dec which is when my lease runs out. These things take time and its more complicated than you think. Im also thinking about my son too. Im taking one step at a time for now.....

congrats man, hope it works out for you.

and good luck.

congrats on the find, an di hope the best of luck for you.

how far away is she?

Shes about oh say 700 miles or so away.

ouch, yeah that hurts

Have you told your current girlfriend about this new girl?

Have you told her about that you're thinking of leaving her?

Call me old fashioned, but I'm not one for cheating. I classify this as cheating, as minor as it may seem. How would you like it if she treated you this way?

My thoughts exactly.

No, no, and for all I know she could be treating me this way and I have no clue. She knows were not up to par on the relationship thing and we have almost seperated a couple of times before. Most recently about 3 - 4 months ago.

To be totaly honest, I was planning to leave even before I ever started to talk to this other person. I dont feel as if I am cheating in any way.

If it happens then thats something that I will need to deal with. Other non BC members I have spoken with just think that I should up and leave and go my merry way. Thats not very realistic in my situation, but I will be telling my gf when the time is right and for now, im taking the necessary steps to do just that.

turn off the **** Tony


j/k buddy, wish you the best