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Old 02-19-2004, 02:05 AM   #11
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See, this is the right pace to talk about it!!
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Old 02-19-2004, 02:21 AM   #12
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You didnt say what was in both of your names, CD collection? half a million in savings? what? Sit down at a table with a piece of paper, and write down values of items, and what should be done with them(whos party gets what). Now if you did a dumb thing, and put both names on a morgage witch only you contribute to, your only getting half back. Sorry, but somtimes **** hits the fan.
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I am sorry you have to go through this. It majorly sucks!! There are always 2 sides to every story. I am not saying you are at fault but there may have been signs that she was needing something that you didn't provide. Women can be fickle and men are sometimes not so observant (especially of their "friends") I once dated this guy for like 6 months or more and at least 3 or his "good friends" tried hooking up with me. I was stunned that there isn't more loyalty among mens friends. For future reference- don't tell your friends about your girlfriend because they might start getting ideas. That goes for women as well. My exhusband was a great guy but he loved to run the roads drinking with the guys all the time. I got tired of it and signed over the house to him and left. I told a friend of mine over casual conversation that my ex was really a great guy, worked hard, good provider but he just was hardly home. She swooped right in and was with him until he died 5 years ago. She went through the same situation of being alone most of the time but she spent her time cheating on him up until the day he died.

I would suggest that you come to an agreement and do a quick claim deed on the house for whoever is going to keep it. Then whoever doesn't have insurable interest in the house should have their name removed from the mortgage. You might need to refinance. If you are the one to sign the quick claim deed make sure you remove your name from the mortgage because you could still be held liable.
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I don't have any experience with that from which I can offer advice.... but I just wanted to say I'm sorry. No one deserves that. :(
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Sorry bro. I know what being stabbed in the back feels like, and I deeply feel for you!
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All I can say is that i'm SO SORRY...thank God we're not all like that

--Christine :(
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Yeah... Valentines day this year seemed to be a pretty bad thing. I got this girl that I had been talking with for a while a nice Valenties day gift, after that she told me pretty much that she didn't want a relationship with me, and blamed it on my best friend . Needless to say I left the party early that night, had a few speed runs, and havn't talked to her since.... I'm still pissed about that night... I usually don't tell a lot of people my feelings, and pretty much right after I told her my feelings, well... it hit hard :(


But, sorry to hear about whats goin' on in your life... I hope every thing turns out for the best under the circumstances....
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Sorry to hear things are not just peachy...I'm sure things will look up, even though it might not feel like it now .

As far as the plotting thing making you fell better...there'* a Freudian theory about that-but I won't Psych. 101 you all.
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I hate to say it but its been 8-9 months since my ex-wife divorced me and I am not just getting over her. I am not good at this tyupe of thing but its just going to take time. Thinking about her and trying to do your daily routine is just something you have to deal with until you just one day get over it. Just don't let it turn out as bad as mine was.
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