It'* like trying to explain Winnie-the-Pooh. It doesn't have to make sense, it just is.

I spent two years dating some girl. Then one day she up and joined the army and told me she didn't want to see me any more. No explanation. 20 years later she regrets it but still can't explain why she did it.

My only advice, don't try and start a relationship over the phone... That'* a face to face kinda thing. It'* a lot tougher handling face to face rejection, yes, but hiding behind a phone or IM or chat or whatever, ccan't be very confidence inspeiring for her....

Well, from what you posted as your conversation I would say it lacks substance. You need some confidence and not the uh, um, okay, whatever lines.

The others here are right, the right one will come along when you least expect it. I think SingsCountry has a point also. It does go the other way around. I use to treat my men like kings!!! I would move mountains for them if that is what I thought would make them happy. Turns out most like to be treated like ****. I do better with a guy when I care less what he thinks and don't do anything for them. When I was being the good little Suzy homemaker I was not appreciated and was left for someone that treated them the worst I could ever think about treating someone. I am the type of woman that is independent and I pay my own way and don't need a man. I would like a man to be my companion, my partner in crime , and someone to take care of but I need a certain type of guy that won't let me walk all over him. Because even if I'm not trying to do that I will end up doing just that and need a man that knows how to pick his battles .

It isn't just women or men- It is life that is fickle!!!

Hang in there.

SSEi; You are one of a kind and there are not enough of women like you with that mind set.

Go ask fat girls out. They're not getting many dates either so you may have better success. Date the one with a good personality and can make you laugh.

The *HOT* one are all fickle. They know they're hot and can get a guy like that (snaps fingers) so why should they date YOU when they can have some hunk?

And before the flames fly, I married mine. We've been together 16 years now.

I'm still not old enough for that.

I'm keeping my cool with girls. I'm just sitting back and going with the flow. I'm waiting for a girl to catch my eye (not only looks, but personality). I mean, I thought my ex was beautiful, but to some other guys, they thought she was ugly, but I didn't care.

That'* what'* wrong, is the girls like sh*tty guys. I'm not like that. My girlfriend usually gets treated like a princess. lol

dude, with a conversation like that, what can you really expect? YOu can't just drop a bomb like that then be like "ok. I gotta go, bye." Have some confidence in yourself! What seperates the "a$$holes" from the "nice guys" is usually confidence. I'm one of the nice guys t oo, but I know how to have enough confidence to know what I want, and how to get it. It'* all about the personality. You can be the ugliest person on the face of the planet, but if you have a really outgoing, fun, confident personality, girls dig it. Trust me. They arne't always looking for the "bad boys" they just like guys who know what they want. You can't expect someone to like you, if you don't like yourself.. Just my opinion, take it for what it'* worth. If it were me, when she said you weren't her type, I would have asked why, and joked aroudn with her. Don't be pushy and be like "why aren't I good enough for you," but, make jokes that you know are totally outrageous like "is it because I have a big butt," or something stupid like that. Girls also like a good sense of humor..

Well said Custom, Girls just wanna have fun!!!

Done it.

Dated a girl who looked like sasquatch (tried to not be shallow.. much as i hate to admit this, I am quite shallow..)she dumped me because i wasn't 'fun' enough, but ask any of my friends, i'm happy-go-lucky, hyper, and crazy acting sometimes.. i love to get out and just do stupid **** and have fun with friends.. then, she dumped me and went after this skinny guy. I was like saw him two weeks later and apparently she told him what i had said about her right to her face when she said i can't do this anymore haha and apparently, he was pissed. he wanted to fight but he'* 18, so i said cool hit a minor, you must like bubba ..wait, you're dating her/him/it.. he got SO pissed. yea i'm done on this one,lol

ya thats how i am, i usually get a girl flowers just on random occasions and like 5/10 that i've dated have LOVED that, the other half were annoyed (or so it appeared) .. i'm a sweetheart to a girl if she is nice to me .. i'm a hopeless romantic. i love to cuddle and all that stupid ****, i do. i miss it, though, haha

i thought about it, but more than likely i'd look like an idiot to her, haha.. i have some confidence but i mean stupid **** like this ruins it

Concentrate on your car and your education.
Your Bonne will give you unconditional love.
Your education will provide you with a good high paying job.
Women can *** later. :P