Goodbye to everyone.
10-26-2006, 12:37 AM
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While I totally respect your decision, I can tell you in times of stress and confusion, please turn towards friends ...don't push them away. Feel free to talk to us privately through PM'* or publicly in the Lounge. That'* the great thing about this place, we accept everyone and, while we do joke around a lot with each other, we are here for you if you need to vent, advice, or just someone to talk to.
Take care my dear...
Take care my dear...
10-26-2006, 07:11 AM
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We may be kinda freaks, but we do enjoy talking to our BC friends. Do what you gotta do, but like has been said previously, if you need an ear to bend, we tend to be good, non-judgemental listeners here....
10-26-2006, 07:16 AM
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I had always seen the crew here at BC helping out other people through tough times, and always thought that I would never need such services. I was proved wrong here recently though, as I went through, and still sorta am going through a few things in my personal life and didnt really have anywhere else to turn. The advice and support I received from these people I've never even met really helped me through the worst of it, and I dont know that I couldve done it without them.
If youre going through a tough time, I know it may seem like the best thing to do to just be alone and push everyone else away, but its really not, surround yourself with friends and family and other people who care about you. The folks here at BC are a pretty caring group, whether your one of the more "popular" members, a newbie, or if you just so happen to have been here a long time.
If youre going through a tough time, I know it may seem like the best thing to do to just be alone and push everyone else away, but its really not, surround yourself with friends and family and other people who care about you. The folks here at BC are a pretty caring group, whether your one of the more "popular" members, a newbie, or if you just so happen to have been here a long time.
10-26-2006, 11:52 AM
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Like others have said above- there isn't a need to leave us unless you just feel you must. I can testify that this is one great place to find advice, friendship, and just someone to let you vent when you just feel frustrated! These people here have seen me through good times and bad. When I joined I wasn't really active in posting, I just lurked around and read everything. They welcomed me with open arms and I have never left. We are a strong, tightknit bunch of people from every walk of life going through every situation imaginable (or pretty darn close).
We are here if you want to talk. Or you can just lurk around for a while- I know a lot of these clowns here are good for a laugh when you really need one
PS- guys I mean clowns in the most lovingest way
We are here if you want to talk. Or you can just lurk around for a while- I know a lot of these clowns here are good for a laugh when you really need one
PS- guys I mean clowns in the most lovingest way
10-26-2006, 12:09 PM
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Heck...there is days I feel like I don't fit in. It'* no reason to leave though. But goodluck in whatever you do and your always welcome here at BC
10-26-2006, 12:56 PM
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Ok so heres the deal, Ive done some thinking since i made this post, The thing with me is I am still having problems dealing with the car wreck I had in June of this year. I just finished physical therapy,and heres a shocker,, IT DIDNT WORK. That was for my back. I have 3 messed up disks and one ruptured disk on my lower lumbar spine. I found out today when I went to the doctor that I have to go monday to get more MRI'*. This time its my knees too. Then I have to get surgery on both of them at the same time. It stinks. I just got a new job that I love and now I may lose it because of this stupid car wreck all because people who cant get off their cell phones and pay attention to the road. I honestly don't know how to deal with it. This was my first wreck in the 8 years I have been driving, and it wasnt even my fault.The only other wrecks I have had to deal with are the ones a few of my friends were in, but I cant talk to them because they died. I was supposed to have died that night too, but I wonder why I didnt, and why I have to be the one to suffer for something thats not my fault. :(
10-26-2006, 01:00 PM
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Originally Posted by gojosgirl
Ok so heres the deal, Ive done some thinking since i made this post, The thing with me is I am still having problems dealing with the car wreck I had in June of this year. I just finished physical therapy,and heres a shocker,, IT DIDNT WORK. That was for my back. I have 3 messed up disks and one ruptured disk on my lower lumbar spine. I found out today when I went to the doctor that I have to go monday to get more MRI'*. This time its my knees too. Then I have to get surgery on both of them at the same time. It stinks. I just got a new job that I love and now I may lose it because of this stupid car wreck all because people who cant get off their cell phones and pay attention to the road. I honestly don't know how to deal with it. This was my first wreck in the 8 years I have been driving, and it wasnt even my fault.The only other wrecks I have had to deal with are the ones a few of my friends were in, but I cant talk to them because they died. I was supposed to have died that night too, but I wonder why I didnt, and why I have to be the one to suffer for something thats not my fault. :(
10-26-2006, 01:17 PM
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Originally Posted by SSE14U24ME
Originally Posted by gojosgirl
Ok so heres the deal, Ive done some thinking since i made this post, The thing with me is I am still having problems dealing with the car wreck I had in June of this year. I just finished physical therapy,and heres a shocker,, IT DIDNT WORK. That was for my back. I have 3 messed up disks and one ruptured disk on my lower lumbar spine. I found out today when I went to the doctor that I have to go monday to get more MRI'*. This time its my knees too. Then I have to get surgery on both of them at the same time. It stinks. I just got a new job that I love and now I may lose it because of this stupid car wreck all because people who cant get off their cell phones and pay attention to the road. I honestly don't know how to deal with it. This was my first wreck in the 8 years I have been driving, and it wasnt even my fault.The only other wrecks I have had to deal with are the ones a few of my friends were in, but I cant talk to them because they died. I was supposed to have died that night too, but I wonder why I didnt, and why I have to be the one to suffer for something thats not my fault. :(
There are good sources for advice around here,privately or publicly. Ya just need to find out who they are