When life throws me a curve ball and I need to relax... I work on my car. Even if there'* nothing wrong with it (hardly ever happens). Life is so much more simple when you're turning a ratchet.

If you have the means, go buy something for yourself... something to occupy your time.

Go buy a turbo kit... that'll do it.

Mann I'm sorry to hear that =( I'm just gonna keep this short & sweet before I get too honest & look like a B...it sounds like you may be better off in the long run without her, I know it hurts now but eventually all of this will pass & you will be happier. Best of luck to ya!

thank you all for the concern and i plan to take some time off go to my cabin relax and enjoy the end of summer before winters here and john i cant turbo my car its alread y supercharged lol hey i could do my trucks tho huh an also KOMAHOBY your not being rude i agree i will enjoy my self the best i can im always me and im always free

http://www.3800performance.com/Merch...e=CT-TURBO-KIT

Do it!!!!

they dont have one for my bonne

It'll fit! I promise!

If you are really interested in the kit, I'll gather some information for you. I can get in touch with a couple of people who have done this swap already.

Sorry to hear that bud.. my buddy and his gf of 4 years is going threw this also... There arent words to make it all better... just time and activities to keep ur mind off it.

PROductive, not DEstructive: doing it right!

i'll throw in my 2 cents quickly: she obviously had this in motion for quite some time, which means there wasn't really anything you could do to change it, so don't bother beating yourself up over thinking "what could i have done to undo this" because there isn't anything, unless she is just extremely irrational and will change her mind at the drop of a hat. i often think about what i would do in the same situation and that'* about the only advice i can give, not having gone through(or planning on going through) this scenario.

I've never been through this and I hope and pray to God that I never will. All I can offer you is my time, that I and many others here are always here if you need someone to talk to, and I'd be more than willing to offer you my cell phone number if you just need to vent or talk things over or get a second opinion.

Having not ever been through anything like this in my life, the only thing I can really say is that if she left you based on the information you've given us, she either left because she couldn't deal with things on her own and didn't think she could keep you happy in the future and wanted you to find something better. Just hang in there for a while. From what I have heard from friends who have gone through this, it will pass eventually and sometimes there'* really nothing you can do. Seems to me its nothing that you did to cause this, because if she truly did love you, she would have been willing to work out whatever problem there could have been between you, if there ever was one.

Anyways, enough of my rambling. I'm here for you if you need someone to talk to.

sorry to hear that man, wish you all the best with whats coming up