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Old 08-24-2010, 11:42 PM   #1
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Well i came home tonight and noticed the only cars here were my 97 and my brothers escort..so i figured my wife was at the store or something(as im driving the silverado till my tc bolts come in).Anyways as i walked in set my stuff down i noticed an envolope on the tv stand with no writing so i open it and basically my wife has decided she no longer wants to be married she says she has her own problems and demons to deal with on her own and she felt going it alone was best sure enough all her stuff was gone she took nothing of mine and left both her rings with the letter and divorce papers already sighned on her part so apparently she has filed a while back but what i don't get is why did'nt i get served can she chose to have me not served so she can do it her self or what i don't know i know this sucks and its about the dumbest reason to leave somebody but i guess i have to respect her desision as i do love her so i guess i just gotta let her go huh what i do know is i havent cried like this or felt so crappy sense my older brother passed oh and i decided to keep the 97 ssei im not selling it i love it to much i am buying another truck but not the one i showed but idc about that right now what i do care is that i lost my wife because her past and her regrets caught up to her maybe it was cause she didnt want to drag me into it or idk what it was or is but thanks for reading
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Sorry to hear all this Man. All the kind, wise words can't make it better for you. And I have lived the grief your feeling. Twice. Hope the best for you and know we are here at the Forum for you while you sort this out. It especially hurts alot more when you don't see it coming and it blindsides ya.
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Sorry to hear....my parents are going through divorce too. Now i gotta move to oklahoma....i wont see the my bonnieville for the next 2 years :(
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Sorry to hear that. We're here for ya man. Best of luck to ya
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Not much can be said in this case. It'* my opinion that in this case, let her go. Fighting will not change things for the better. Move on and wish her the best. Try not to be over whelmed.
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thank you all i greatly appreciate it i dont know how ill take it but i do know i have to hold my composure
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Sorry to hear this... Take a breather and collect your thoughts. I think you will make the right decisions.
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My advice? Keep doing what you love! Be an enthusiast, Be free, and finally, Be you!
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Sorry to hear what happened, if ya ever need to chat let me know. best of luck and hang in there!
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Woah, am i being rude?

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