replaced ect sensor, fuses are good, relays are good, no power at connection for fans

At what temp are you expecting them to come on?

temp almost redlines then I shut it down

two maxi fuses cooling fan 1 and 2 and three relays cool fan, cool fan 1 and cool fan 2, check all for being blown or loose or corroded sockets, check the fuses with a meter to see if they are getting power.

everything appears fine but the only way I can get a fan to work is if I take out the cooling fan relay(5 prong) and with a test light attached to battery ground and insert probe into lower left side socket.

with car running, tested all wires at the fan. all 4 wires showed as being ground. unplugged NEW ect sensor while car was running now I have high speed fans. is sensor faulty or dig some more

If you disconnect the ECT sensor and the fans turn on, then this is normal. Its designed to do this.

Is there any way you can get a live data scanner hooked up to see the actual temperature of what the PCM is seeing?

I have a code reader. will that do?

What make,model is the code reader?
Some will show you live data, some won't.
If it shows coolant temperature somewhere while hooked up, then that will do.

you know everything from the pcm is good if the unplugging the ect makes them turn on, maybe bad new ect. like they said need live data scanner to be sure what the pcm is seeing

if your a/c is working you should have seen the fans some on when you turn it on. i think unless it has some limit tied to engine temp. i know if the a/c is discharged it will not work