Greatest sum-up award thus far goes to Tracy.

Keyword: relationship.

If you are just "dating" both of them, fine. If you are in a "relationship" (i.e. monogonous dating) with one and "dating" another, the one in the relationship "probably" has the right to know. But I will say that if there'* no ring on either finger then no one absolutely has to be told. But it'* the right/courteous thing to do.

The defining difference according to Chris. Others may disagree, that'* fine, post what your interpretation is, no hard feelings here.

With relationship maturity increasing as you go:

1) Dating: casual, no committment
2) Monogomous Dating (i.e. "relationship"): some commitment, common courtesy rules apply
3) Engaged: increased commitment, still not fully committmed, common courtesy rules are now mandatory
4) Married: highest level of commitment and maturity, don't even think about breaking the rules, common courtesy or otherwise

Couldn't have said it better. The bottom line is to treat them as you want to be treated. Put yourself in their shoes and act accordingly.

YOU need to make a choice. What you're doing is unfair to both. And it WILL bite you sooner or later.

Even if you make what you decide later was the WRONG choice, it was still the right choice.

One at a time bud. How would they both feel if they found out?

aight, since i even got the big dog in here, i figured i would mention this little tidbit

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go ahead and re-read it now, its pretty damn funny!






thanks for the tears of laughter... i really enjoyed it!

come on guys, if i would have had a girlfriend for the past year, you guys would have known it

Omg.........

You are

Should've known better. YOU are suck a dork!

i showed the post to a REAL x-gf and she said

I never figured you as spilling your guts in a forum.

Too Funny.

Ban him for making us all look like fools!

I didn't buy it either

The Pimp Master having lady problems???
That boy could get laid in a convent