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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 12:18 AM
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Boo ya! You go boy! Your not commited until you say I do. Aint no prenuptuals legally binding anyway. LOL
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 12:18 AM
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Originally Posted by harofreak00
Originally Posted by driverjohn2005
You need to decide what is best for you. But it'* not fair to lead on eather one of them if there isn't a future to the relationship
are you saying that if you are in a relationship you are thinking you are with them till the end? i dont think so... i think i should have the right to be able to go where i want at that time...
no, but do you see them as someone you want to be with. I don't go out with a chick and think "She'* the one I want to marry!" Yet, on the other hand, you can't just think "She'* too boring right now, let'* go out with this chick and I'll just come back to her when I want to."

1) You need to be honest with Sarah.

2) Does Jenna know you are/was/in a relationship with someone else?

i think i should have the right to be able to go where i want at that time...[/
Wrong mind set Andrew UNLESS Sarah thinks the same way, or anyother chick you date. Would you be alright if Sarah was seeing someone else? Think about this in her shoes. How would you feel?
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 12:26 AM
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Knowing what I know now, I would be honest with both. Cover ups just look bad.

I just asked MrsCrzy if I could date someone and she said no.

But you arent married/committed to either are you? have you made promises? Dont play em or you could end up on Cheaters

Otherwise. go for what makes ya happy
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 12:56 AM
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my only question is...who is this...and where does she fit into this?

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Naw, but sounds like a very interesting situation, just go with who ever you think is best, but don't EVER let either one find out, because you will then be left with none...because BOTH of them will think you are a cheater...and well that would just be bad....

but umm are we all POSITIVE that Andrew isin't 12?

Originally Posted by harofreak00
...i have even seen her naked!...
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 01:22 AM
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dud you are palying with fire and you are playing with two vary short end of some fuses and the are going to explde ing your face
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 01:54 AM
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I think there'* more going on here then meets the eye... Besides it'* not like he has women trouble...

Ride Jenna until Sarah'* ready to go!
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 02:12 AM
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Sounds like Sarah thinks you two are a couple...if so, then you should break it off with her if you're not ready to be in a monagamous relationship. I mean, it'* fine to date more than one person as long as everyone has the same understanding that THAT is how it is. But if you lead either one to believe that you are seeing only them, then you are a player... it will catch up with you sooner or later and you'll lose both.
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 02:27 AM
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Well after getting to know Jenna last weekend, I gotta say, she'* pretty cool! But it sounds like Sarah has a lot of potential... You can't forget all the mischief you guys have gotten into
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 02:41 AM
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i have to say thank you to everyone that has posted their thoughts, i really appreciate it... so glad you guys are like family

still unsure what to do
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Old Oct 15, 2006 | 05:35 AM
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Sometimes don't you wish you could cut and paste the best parts of both girls and make one really incredible one? But seriously, if you don't want to be exlusive, I would tell them. If they truly care for you, they will support your decision. If they don't, then they really weren't the right person for you.
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