Okay, so there are definitely some good guys out there...
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I know, why would he? At least until we see your picture, that is...
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My friend just brought this to my attention. It'* very interesting.
http://www.pointsincase.com/columns/nicole/2-23-05.htm
"Dear Nicole,
Hi, my name is George and I am a sweet guy that would treat a girl like a princess if I had a girlfriend. Some of the girls I have liked in the past dated such ******** I don’t understand why? I am always so nice to girls that I like and I don’t get anything back from it. Any advice?
-George
Dear George,
As a girl who has dated a few guys known to commit random acts of assholery, I understand where you're coming from. I think it'* rooted in low self-esteem, and the girl-logic goes something like this: This nice guy is crazy about me, and since I suck, he must have low standards. This jerk likes me, but treats me like crap... which means he recognizes my worthlessness, but is willing to give me a chance to earn his love. The nice guy will be there in case this other guy falls through, but in the meantime, I'm going to take the *******'* abuse with good humor, since something you work and suffer for is automatically more valuable than something you get for free. Is this a glaring example of female irrationality? Perhaps, but don't climb on that high horse yet, boys. At least our apartments don't reek of rotting fast food and stale urine.
Sincerely,
Nicole "
That'* one way of looking at it, although it may not be completely valid. But it brings up some good points that may apply to some.
http://www.pointsincase.com/columns/nicole/2-23-05.htm
"Dear Nicole,
Hi, my name is George and I am a sweet guy that would treat a girl like a princess if I had a girlfriend. Some of the girls I have liked in the past dated such ******** I don’t understand why? I am always so nice to girls that I like and I don’t get anything back from it. Any advice?
-George
Dear George,
As a girl who has dated a few guys known to commit random acts of assholery, I understand where you're coming from. I think it'* rooted in low self-esteem, and the girl-logic goes something like this: This nice guy is crazy about me, and since I suck, he must have low standards. This jerk likes me, but treats me like crap... which means he recognizes my worthlessness, but is willing to give me a chance to earn his love. The nice guy will be there in case this other guy falls through, but in the meantime, I'm going to take the *******'* abuse with good humor, since something you work and suffer for is automatically more valuable than something you get for free. Is this a glaring example of female irrationality? Perhaps, but don't climb on that high horse yet, boys. At least our apartments don't reek of rotting fast food and stale urine.
Sincerely,
Nicole "
That'* one way of looking at it, although it may not be completely valid. But it brings up some good points that may apply to some.
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And after reading that "Dear Nicole" note, I just have to say it again...
I am so freaking glad I'm single sometimes...
I am so freaking glad I'm single sometimes...
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And Jeanie: I for one would still like you for who you are, regardless of what you look like. As I said before, though, my curiosity just won't let go of this issue :P Therefore, I go on hoping that you will one day, perhaps even inadvertantly, post a picture of yourself...
Hey, I can dream, can't I?
Hey, I can dream, can't I?