i swallow a lot....just had my hair cut, everytime she made a daring cut, i swallow.. i dont think she caught on

i already know what i want to say, but all that may fly out the window...thanks for luck, and the result will come in tomorrow

Feel free to use us as you test "mirror". The few women here would be more than happy to help you i'm sure Oh, and i know exactly how you feel with the friend thing. Going from friends to a couple can be tough. I have a girl now that'* basically a girlfriend without the making out or "sexual experiences". You know the whole nine yards, pet names, dates, wrestling, the occasional changing on front of eachother and an occasional "i love you". It should be plenty easy, besides if you've been friends for 2 years you must have SOME chemistry. That'* what i say.

here'* what i was thinking...she likes bike riding, so why not go for a ride. tell her i have know this girl for while and we are friends, and i like her and want to ask her out, but afraid to mess up our friend ship, and ask her what her advice is. then, after we get back, tell her "by the way, that (insert caring adjectives here) wonderful girl is you" or something....so, what do ya think?

Hmm subtle... yet classy I LIKE it.

i sure hope she likes it....and me.

Dunno, I've always found "subtle" ways like that to be not overly appreciated. If you really like her you should just tell her/come out and ask her, making up the story will only make you nervous during the lead-up, and you'll risk messing it up. It'* like making a cut for a project (stick with me here), if you go really slow, you often make things crooked, etc. But if you line it up, make the cut, and get it done it usually turns out way better.

Anyways just my 2 cents, I'd stay away from "stories" and "plots" and the like. Keep it simple. Although the bike ride idea has merit.

that sounds like a really good idea!! dont be nervous because if she doesnt like you for you then its her loss. your a nice guy and there arent many nice guys out there anymore. (most of them are taken or there arent any) the worst thing that can happen is her saying no. try not to be nervous, think about what your gonna say before you say it and just be yourself. dont worry everything will turn out okay.

Ugh, me too. Maybe you meant literally, but I just start talking so fast my mouth can't keep up.

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Stay cool man, just chill, if she likes you enough, there is no reason to be nervous, and if she doesn't like yah that way, well then you still don't have to be nervous, because there is nothing to lose (Maybe a friendship, but she will prolly pass it off). Keep cool, its all good.