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Old 01-17-2006, 05:25 PM   #31
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if a girl wanted to rip my face off i would end the relationship right there. there are plenty of fish in the sea and you deserve better than that.
As a gf, yes you are correct. But she is one of my best friends that I never wanted to lose.
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Old 01-17-2006, 06:06 PM   #32
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going to say my piece and get out... if you feel she is worth your effort...then once you think that you have done some positive damage control...it would be pretty special for her to see at least some of this thread...heavily filtered of course...there were some comments made that she definitely shouldn't see. if you present it the right way...at the right time...it could potentially make a huge positive impression on her. of course, she might be torqued at you for sharing the issue with us. so, i guess you must use your better judgement. now before i get too mucked up in this, i'm outta here.
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Old 01-18-2006, 05:57 PM   #33
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ok...wrote an email this morning (yeah I really liked the hand written note idea but USPS is too slow for me) and here is the response I got back. I took out parts with info I didn't want shared. (where the ...'* are)


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Rob I appreciate the apology but it doesnt take back what you said about me ... the truth is is i have moved on.... imagine someone you trusted and thought was a best friend said those things about you ... your damn right im still pissed! i dont know if i were to ever talk to you again if i could truely trust you. idk when im going to be able to talk to you with out being mad. rob this really messed things up for you and me. im sorry idk if i can be a friend for right now. because you sending that to me shows me that you dont really like me at all as a person let alone a friend. if you dont have respect for me then i cant have any for you. im sure you understand.
yeah, I f'd up and she sh*t I shouldn't have...I guess I get what I deserve.
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Old 01-18-2006, 06:08 PM   #34
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Ow...

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Old 01-18-2006, 06:10 PM   #35
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give her time. It didn't sound too bad. It sounds like she still has the door ajar. In time she might be able to slowly trust you. Give her some breathing room and email her every now and again just to keep in touch. Only time will tell.
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Old 01-23-2006, 01:15 AM   #37
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Well this will be the last "update" of how stuff stands between her and me.

I took Geoff'* Lumina for the weekend, and on an instantaneous decision at 11:30 friday night, decided I would make the 630ish mile round trip down to PA where I went to HS. My intent was to not even bother the girl but just chill with my friends. Ended up calling her saturday night jsut to inform her that I was in town (figured it would be better if she heard from me directly and not through the "grape vine". So that was a voicemail, because the bitch she was hanging out with that night stole her phone when she saw I was calling. (I'm NOT a fan of the girl she was with hence the harsh language)

Anywho, sunday morning we got together went to a local elementary school play grouind(nice day and they had swings), and talked. She'* still pissed at me (understandably) but as she said herself "time heals everything" so now its just however long it takes her to move on from my stupidity. Downside is that her mother read my email, and told her father. his response to finding out was "if he ever steps foot in this house again I am going to rip his arms off and beat him to death with them" So I guess I will never see the inside of her house again

So I guess all in all its good news.

Weekend was a blast anyways so I guess that makes it worth the large cost to go down there.
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Well I guess in the end, her dad is helping it along since you don't want a relationship with someone who'* dad wants to kill/beat you! enjoy your friends and goodluck in college!! Girls just aren't worth your time sometimes!! I'll admit we're b*thces at times!
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