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Old 08-12-2004, 01:36 AM   #1
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so why not bring you further into my personal life. basically i am having soem problems with my girlfriend. Im 18 and we take our relationship pretty seriously, but still know that we should jsut have fun. basically, i feel like she dosent appreciate me. shes always joking that i never kiss her, or i never pay attention to her (the moment i look at the tv), and other such things like that. but to be completley honest, i do everything i can for her. weve been together for 10 months now and every week i take her out somewhere, about a quarter to a half of my paycheck goes to things for her every week. i call her 2, 3 times a day. i see her everyday. i even **** off my friends when i leave their house to go to hers. i mean, i do everything for her. please somebody just give me an educated oppinion, not just "dump the bitch" or something stupid like that.
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I know what that can be like. She just flat out wants attention. I really don't see the problem being you, but it'* her. Some girls are like that. I've had girls who do the same thing.. they smother you! Eventually I just couldn't stand it anymore. :(

Good Luck! Talk to her about how you feel though. Girls like to hear how you're trying and stuff.. Tell her what you just told us.
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Tell her how you feel, when your in a realtionship you should not be afraid to share your feelings with eachother... at least this is what I would do if I was in your shoes. If shes not understanding, or she yells at you then maybe you need to take a step back and re-evaluate your relationship. Good luck bro!

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Well, you might not like what I have to say....But it sounds like your relationship is going through a change. Maybe it is time you both sit down like adults and talk about what you expect from each other. Plus keep in mind you are both young, and there is a lot of time before you need to start talking about the relationship lasting forever. You really need to talk to her, because pretty soon you will start to resent each other, and then you will break up, under some not so nice terms.
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tell her whats up...
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Well, you might not like what I have to say....But it sounds like your relationship is going through a change. Maybe it is time you both sit down like adults and talk about what you expect from each other. Plus keep in mind you are both young, and there is a lot of time before you need to start talking about the relationship lasting forever. You really need to talk to her, because pretty soon you will start to resent each other, and then you will break up, under some not so nice terms.
ohh that is oh-so familiar. :( we DID end up resenting eachother.. me resenting her much more than the other way around.
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well a little backround info, ive had a major girlfriend before, (psycho crazy bitch) and you guesed it, we hate each other now. but thats what happens what a certain psycho cheats on a certain person. i try to talk to my current g/f about things but she just gets upset and apologizes, she dosent listen. she dosent understand its not the end of the world. but i dont blame her for that becuase i am her first real boyfriend (she is only 16).
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uh oh.. a younger girl... Just.. yeah. nevermind.

You must be able to have a mature sit down with her, and she has to understand what you are talking about, if she doesn't understand, then she may not be mature enough to be dating you, or dating at all. Just be sure it doesn't end ugly.. because your an adult [as far as society goes], and she is a minor.. which from what I understand, that is illegal. So if you [dun, dun, dun, dun], she can file for statutory [sp?] rape. Oh yeah.. and most important of all, relationships that are just fun, shouldn't be stressful, relationships that are serious are stressful, and take a lot of work.. so you have to think about which one you are in.


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Tell her how you feel, when your in a realtionship you should not be afraid to share your feelings with eachother... at least this is what I would do if I was in your shoes. If shes not understanding, or she yells at you then maybe you need to take a step back and re-evaluate your relationship. Good luck bro!

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I agree. If you are in a relationship you should be able to have a conversation and put your cards on the table and work to resolve issues before they get out of hand. You need to make sure that you are both on the same page. Good luck with the situation. I think the others have given you some really good advice.
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thanks guys! im gonna have to just sit down and talk to her, ill let you know how it all turns out.
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