I would have told him where he could shove his job if he talked to me like that.


but its in the past now.let it go.


one of these days, the right job will come along Dan.

if they treated you that way for not
taking the job
just think if you took the job
how long would it take them to
treat you like crap

Totally unprofessional of the possible employer. If they cannot respect your choices right now, then they have some serious issues. I'd personally be appalled by that kind of reaction - you may not have taken the job, but whats stopping you from suggesting it to someone else down the road? That employer shot himself in the foot in more ways then one.

Could you imagine working with someone like that anyway?

I think you made the right decision to go by your gut.
Looks like it was right. Could you imagine how you would have been treated once they had you under their thumb.

Had you formally accepted their position yet, or were you still "thinking about it?"

He has a few points as other'* have mentioned, but as about EVERYONE mentioned, it was brought up the wrong way. Could've been constructive for sure, giving you advice.

What job was it? Something related to sales, or retail, with a lot of push?