I agree

True, true but nothing compares to the raw passion a couple can share when they are done talking There has to always be balance. Talk a little, play a little

Or talk a little while you're playing

Momma always said not to talk with your ..... Never mind. talking and playing- good concept.

Hmmm good topic. When I took my Break from BC It was to focus more on what was going on in my personal life and now that we have talked AND listened, were both better for it and I have learned a bit about myself and the things that were lacking in our relationship.

During our talks, she also realized things about herself that needed to improve, but all it took was a bit of talking, ALLOT of listening and some understanding, and now things are off on right foot.

So far so good!!

I know how that fells. I mean after 11 years with my ex, then meeting Crystal, I had a sales clerk ( female of course and I was buying a 37" LCD tv) tell me that my face lit up when I answered my cell phone. I then told her it was my GF, she said she rarely sees that in a person.

It is finally nice to be with a person that you just know, so you don't really have to guess how she feels, cause her and I are the same.

I have to agree with Tracy though that "you shouldn't talk with your ...."

Talking and playing both have a big part in any relationship. I made it clear when this one started that I wanted to get to know HER as a person and didn't want the physical aspect to get in the way. So that is what we did, got to know each other first.

Being there and listening are a good thing to be doing. Cause when she is happy so am I, lmfao.