I was having a discussion earlier with my fiancee and she was talking about not picking up subtle hints and I said to her......


"I'm a man,sometimes ya just gots to e'splain things"

the only thing your getting banned from is the bedroom. :P

Even when we explain sometimes you guys just don't get it. I know very intelligent men that don't understand what they are being told. The things being said aren't always trivial but important to us women and if we aren't heard by our significant other it hurts our feelings and makes us feel less important to our man, like our feelings are dismissed.

Oh,believe me,she knows she'* very important to me.
I've got a hearing loss,due to my last job,and always ask her to repeat what she has said because it'* important to me

You are one of the rare ones then. At least you take the time to ask

She went through a 20 yr marriage to a man who thought the world revolved around him. After they split and we met and became a serious couple,people would comment how much happier she seemed to be since her separation.

we all gotta listen and give a damn how our significant others feel or it makes for a crappy world

Hey, both of those are fun

Yeah................BUT!!!!!!

Sometimes just sitting and talking is cool too

A little consideration can go alot farther than alot of physical