Man you have alot of drama in your life so many crazy posts, I really dont think you need anymore stuff going on right now, thats just my .2 cents

Just send her an email about whats been going on in your life and take it from there, make sure your wife is involved as hiding this could add more drama to your life which I would assume you wouldnt need

good luck

whoa what have you been reading.. what crazy drama post have i made..

my advice:

close the book. this is an opportunity for you to give better closure to the situation, but that is exactly what you have to do. to do anything else is not fair to your wife. tell your wife or dont (women can be extremely unreasonable and she will probably blow this way out of proportion and cause endless arguments), but either way, end it.

you have moved on. let her (the ex) know that. then continue moving on. to do anything else would be unfair to your wife and kids.

I couldn't have said it better myself.

thanks guys for the great advice guys.. and my wife is spanish also so i dont think she would have went for it at all......................

Take it from me, you don't need drama. The last thing you need is to undermine the confidence of your current lady.

well, you know...marriage need some spicing up every once and a while. Maybe your wife will think she'* cute too and, well, you know j/k

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Everything I could think of has been said

The only thing I can think of to add is that it could be an opportunity for you and your old flame to get a little closure on what seems to have been a traumatic point in her life.
But it has to be closure. A long talk on the phone, ending with "have a nice life".