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Jan 6, 2006 | 12:09 PM

#31

Princess Jeanie

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Fine, you guys asked it. To me, being a real man is someone who will pick a girl up and take her to the store because she'* sick and needs to pick up some meds. Or even just the guy who always grabs the door. You know some one who is considerate. I've hung out with a lot of guys, and the ones that I consider real men are the ones who call when they say they will, go out with you when they say they will, who don't make you sit around and wonder what game you're playing today. Guys you aren't men if you think you need to play mind games, or if you think its your right to blow a girl off, mostly because you can. If you think it doesn't apply to you, good, but there are a lot of guys out there that think this is well within their rights.
Other then that, I just think the real men out there are sweeties. The guys that can go watch football with their guy friends, and may project a "man'* man" appearance (and they are "mens men" in their own right) but that know when to be sweet...and dare I say, kinda cute.

There! Sappy enough for all you guys? :P

In my experience I've learned that a lot of women go for ********. The nice guy is the one the girl wants to be 'just friends' with.

Pessimistic, yes. Just what I've learned over the years though...

No, you are pretty much right. It'* kinda a phase, some girls grow out of it and some never do.

Jan 6, 2006 | 01:12 PM

#32

vital49

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Originally Posted by Sol

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Originally Posted by Princess Jeanie

In my experience I've learned that a lot of women go for ********. The nice guy is the one the girl wants to be 'just friends' with.

Pessimistic, yes. Just what I've learned over the years though...

Yes, you're right. Those types of women need the immediate attention that the ******* types of guys will give them.

Jan 6, 2006 | 02:13 PM

#33

Mr Bean

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From: Arizona. Snowboarder. Happy Shredding.

PJ nailed it. Today'* society tries to tell men to either be footbal-addicted brutes...or be soft-spoken, feminine-smelling, metrosexuals. Both are extreme examples with zero balance..(sick in my opinion). A man is comfortable with who he is...he stands firm for what he believes is right, he'* happy to hang out with other guys and do guy stuff...and yet just as happy sitting over a morning cup of coffee chatting with his wife. Us men have to stop putting up with the extreme protrayals of who we're supposed to be, and just be guys...but also be aware...self-aware, and aware of our surroundings...our biggest mistakes sometimes come when we get tunnel-vision and don't notice that our innocently spoken words or actions actually hurt someone we love. Anyway, I am just as happy driving around a 1946 Farmall Super M tractor as I am sitting for an hour at the kitchen table chatting with mom about life. Honest. I'm not there yet...but I hope people will always think of me as a real man. And yeah...real men love Jesus.