(yes...I'm agreeing with Boosty ) I'd rather be single and alone that stuck in a bad relationship not knowing how to get out. And if you are desperate and chase women, they won't like it anymore than men do. That'* probably the only common ground the two genders share.

I've been on both sides of the fences...at the end of the day, make the most of what you have and keep your eyes open for opportunities. As Tracy said, when you least expect it, it will happen.

However....if you do the same thing and expect different results...well, that won't happen either. Change up your routine as Timothyt5 suggested.

A prime example of what I said earlier is that I know Tracy wants me but can't have me since I'm married. I'm a virtual babe magnet when I'm married. But when I'm single, they don't touch me with a 40 foot pole. Oh ya and feed me scraps when I go real hungry.

Girls are easy, I figured them out long ago.

-cater to their interests
-show respect
-don't fear them

If they think they are to good for you, move on, don't dwell.

Be clean cut, demonstrate you are a respectable person, have a goal or two, be eloquent, funny, yet delightfully sensitive.

Remember, you need to slay a few dragons before getting your princess.

Jim...........you smok'in that wacky tabacky again?

I toke not my friend.

Since the women are so wise, I would like to ask...

Tracy (not the NY one) said that if she sees a woman with a man, she won't touch him. What if said woman was just a friend? So in theory having female friends actually hurts your chance of getting a girl?

You mean there'* more then one Tracy on this forum.........Oh. Oh. I'm in trouble now...........where'* my post?

No, I mean if it is clear that a man is with a woman (arm around her, swapping spit in public) then he is off limits. I have lots of friends that are guys. I see nothing wrong with dating a guy who has friends that are girls. I'm not the jealous type.

With the way your wife looks, I'll consider beingg single a curse...

Thanks tracy for clarifying..

What??? Are you new or something????


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