All I can say is Being single IS a blessing

But being single can also be the pits.

It'* a middle ground and all about what/who makes you honestly happy.

This is true The grass isn't always greener on either side of the fence. Each side has perks the other side doesn't. Sometimes I am thrilled to be single and then there are times when I wish there was a man around.

Yeah, i hear that

I've had just about enough of it, and can use a change :(

Finish the car first...

that gives me just as much stress as anywoman ever could....like i sadi i can use a change

Beware of straddling the fence...that can hurt too.

I don't straddle fences

maybe I should have been clearer so that ppl would understand what I meant . What I meant by not look for it is don't make it something you are constantly thinking about it will only make you want it more and you will not like what you get if you lower your standards to get it. As for the mutual friend thing that is prolly the best way if you are activly looking because usually you share the same values. I met my current GF when I wasn't looking and neither was she but something clicked and that was at my cousin'* birthday party. so Pmom I did not sit at home just saying it will come to me it is the fact that I really didn't worry about it. I wish you the best and some ppl I know didn't find the "one till they were like 50+ and now couldn't be happier. just something to consider. Just enjoy life to it'* fullest if it is meant to happen it will plain and simple you can't rush fate

I think he wants a real woman, not virtual