Can some one recommend any free video sharing site that offers a way for me to post (similar to a image url into forum) NOT Photo bucket!
I tried shutter fly but it only offers share with email or an 8 digit url or your own website...
So finding a good video sharing site will be necessary if I want to post videos.
and keep things in order.
Thanks for any insight or help..me too tired to keep downloading free crap that dont work.

youtube. ive got 2 accounts and have been a member since 07. another plus, is if you have a google account, you can just sign in with that instead of making a youtube account, thanks to the fact youtube is owned by google.

youtube has an embed code, but copying the link in this particular forum automatically embeds it into the post.

youtube even allows you to edit once you upload, if you so choose.

and if you get over 100,000 hits, youtube offers a partnership. meaning in exchange for putting ads on your vids, you get a percentage of what they make on each click of the ad.

(sources)

http://www.youtube.com/eltatertoto

TheNewutubesucks - YouTube

Thanks for that Jason but I am looking for a way to go private mode.
Does u tube offer private mode-NOT public?

sure can!

https://support.google.com/youtube/answer/157177?hl=en

Unlisted videos

Making a video unlisted means that only people who have the link to the video can view it. To share an unlisted video, just share the link with the people who you’d like to have access to it, and they’ll then be able to see it. Unlike private videos, the people you share the video with do not need to have a Google account to see the video, and they can share with more people simply by forwarding the link to them.

Unlisted videos won’t appear in any of YouTube'* public spaces, like your channel page or search results.

Anyone who knows the video’* link can place the video in a playlist, even a public playlist. This could make the video visible on other parts of YouTube, including the homepage.
Your video could appear elsewhere on the web if you or anyone who you shared the video with shares it more broadly. For example, if somebody with whom you share the video goes on to share the link through an email or posts it on a blog, then all the people who access that link will be able to view the video.

I have used youtube many times in the past, not sure if it is the best, but it has always served my needs.