leaving my uncles house had the james leadfoot. and well.. blew the tranny.. not like... messed it up.. i mean.. uhh haha i picked up the gears out of the road. now im in bad shape being only 18 working full time and not having a car. dunno what im gonna do. im gonna miss the bonne:(

one wheel burn out? at what point did it break? 1-2 shift?

any signs before this?

no spin at all. actually i think if it would have spun it would have saved it. but yesterday i felt a little grind into 3rd gear... but i just pulled out and gave it a little gas and head a loud pop and my dad walked over and handed me a gear and said son. i dont think is is too good. and pulled me back into the drive way. and looked under and it blew the whole thing out. but no i wasnt even spinning.

I'll bet any money your pinion shaft retaining pin failed allowing the shaft itself to move/wear out awkwardly, hence a side/pinion gear shooting through your extension housing on the trany (passenger side outter)
Comon failure on any open style differential.

hmmm never heard of that happening lol, i wonder why my 95 is just sitting in the drive way lol. Fricken transmissions.

If you have 195K on the tranny you did well. Either spring for a rebuild or buy another car.