you shouldn't need any starting fluid.

are you sure you have your IAC and TPS in correctly?

dont think you can swap plugs with each other can you? you just pop in tps right

no you cant. yes, the TPS just pops in.

does it just crank and crank or actually try to start and then die?

It'* a long shot but trying starting with TPS unplugged.

just will crank and crank every now and then it will catch a little but not nearly enough to start then isee whtie smoke at the tb after like a weird noise alittle smoke comes from tailpipe already tried to unplug tps

Check all the fuses.
Check for spark from each of the three front cylinders.
Check fuel pressure at fuel rail.
Check for fuel injector pulse.

i think the plugs are fouled out how do you get to the back 3

be prepared for some scratches and reach back there.

pulled the wires of the back 3 they broke the ends are still attached the front 3 are black and there is no metal part on plugs they are shot iam pretty sure this will do it

post some pictures of your plugs. if the electrodes of your plugs are missing that is NOT GOOD at all.