As we all know me and my wife have had our moments (I'm sure we all have)...
And we all know that On Sept 20 our Son was born.. Well
Things leading up to that day had been rocky but we knew what and how to fix that. Well since that day It almost feels like we have hit the bottom and my fingers are worn out and the climb out to the top is hard....
With out going in to details on her past I will say I have brought up her 9yr old son and his behavior before here..
I will say my wife has had a $hity past There were problem at home as a child then she ran out at the age of 16 and shacked up with a guy who treated her like a door mat and a maid. then 20 years later she met me, Thats where it gets strange.
We had talked about maybe getting her into speak to someone about Bipolar but when push comes to shove my wife shoves gets mad blames everyone else (Me in general) and runs away.
Well since the baby throw on some post partom depression and it'* even worse. It'* not days anymore its minutes from one Nan to another. Well on Saturday in the middle of her mood swing flip out I packed up Leland and headed to my Mom'*. Now hang on before you say OMG..
We had a visit fomr a public health nurse (optional here) we opted.. what can it hurt. Well Nan'* mind set not wanting to answer questions the way she feels, and would rather give you the answer she thinks you want had the Nurse thinking I was beating her, hence the Nurse has been putting things into Nan'* head So off to Child rotective services ( MY CALL) where I met with the worker today that came to see us after we got home (thanks to my incident during the transfer thing) I should mention she had no concerns of any type of abuse by me but did notice Nan had mental health issues. but didn't really know how bad it was. She is firmly standing beside me and my decision to remove (not take away) Leland. Nan has an appointment Monday with her and Has promised me that she will go and speak to someone about her problem.. NOT that she is admitting a problem but rather to rove to me she doesn't have one.. reversed psychology from her Gp'* advice..
Like I told the social worker today I want the woman I fell in love with back.
So as of right now She sees Leland during the day and we come to my moms at night..
Oh did I mention that I am still moving her she has had all the time in the wolrd to get ready and on the 1st I was packing boxes and loading them. She has no ambition none at all and has to be reminded of simple things like today I took her to Ottawa for her 6 week we got back and I had to ge tpick up her son from school the baby needed to be changed 20 minutes I was gone only to return to her on the phone and baby still needing to be changed.
She shows all the signs of Bipolar and Post Partom depression And on monday she will be advised but CPS that she needs to seek councling.. Finally someone sees what I have been seeing.
I don't even know why I typed this...
But the other day when I said that I was having a bad day I meant it.
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