OOOOO! I love dream psychology!
I'm sure that SSE14U24ME'* take on it is pretty on target. I think this one is what it is, if you know what I mean. You're just nervous about the big day.
But I always like to look a little harder to see if there isn't something else- another facet of your problem...
After thinking about it for a while (and consulting the books) I can gather a few things about your situation.
First of all, the fact that you are initially bored and looking for things to do to fill your time symbolizes that, inherently, you are positive that you want to be with your future wife. It'* not boredom or complacency- it'* simply that you are comfortable where you're at. Whether you doubt it at times, or panick a little, rest assured that you are ready.
Now the rushing part... I have a couple takes on this. On one hand, I think primarily this has to do with your friends and family. Perhaps you feel a little guilty for dragging this out, or taking so long to get married. Taking it slow is smart- but perhaps there were people in your lives that didn't think that way and this is your way of compensating for their impatience in your dream.
Here'* another take- could it be that, somewhere inside, you are frightened that at the last minute, something will occur to totally pull the rug out from underneath your "readiness"? The fact that you are both rushing around indicates to me that you may have a preceding "Murphy'* Law" experience- (or a string of them). If you happen to be prone to that type of thing, you may be rushing in your dream to avoid it, or you may be rushing to get out
The rings... Since most every image in a dream is a metaphorical one, you have to think about what the rings symbolize. They symbolize the tangible proof that you are bound to one another. This is the outward icon that everyone recognizes- this is the proof. Again, I'm going to have to bring the friends and family into this. Do you feel that maybe you will not live up to the expectations of either your family or hers? Perhaps you've said to yourself a couple times, "I wish we could just be married and not have to go through all of this show." I really don't think the forgetting of the rings has anything to do with you dropping the ball on the wedding day- I think it represents a hidden fear of not living up to expectations.
Of course all of this could be complete bullcrap. But I always like to try to think outside the box on these
And I'm pretty new at this, so let me know if I suck or if I may have helped a little.
You guys are gonna be fine, btw. In my opinion- your dream is healthy and indicates that you are the type that will give 100%.