i feel the need the emphasize that while conversations my fiancee and i have seem horrible at times when conveyed -
[for example, the time i told her id lock her in the closet if she didnt shut up, she told me she would poison my food, and i told her id shove her down a flight of stairs and laugh the entire time she was falling]
- we really get along great. we both just have a weird sense of humor. we get along great and when we have a serious disagreement, we resolve it as quickly as is feasible with serious discussion where both parties voice their concerns. however stupic debates like "his car is faster than mine" quickly degenerate into "youre stupid" "shut up" "you shut up" "shut up before i slice your kneecaps off" "you dont have the guts, you weasel" etc etc. i love our relationship and i wouldnt change anything about it
but when i convey the conversations to other people, they think weve got a problem
if shed just lay off the booze...