heres the problem, as i see it.

when girls are young, a lot of them are attracted to the bad boy types. this shows the bad boys that their behavior is rewarded, and not to change. this causes them to exaggerate themselves in that manner. the good guys see this and despair, making them lonely, which completely turns women off to them until they are in their mid-twenties and finally get over it. the girl dates the bad boy and continues to until he playfully pushes her down a flight of stairs or kills her. then, after shes slept with a number of men (growing up) and been pushed down a couple flights of stairs, she realized she wants the nice guys she spurned in school. and since her refusal to be with those nice guys assured that they would be alone until mid-twenties, that works out for her. its a shame he now has a complex and is positive that even if some girl would give him the time of day, she will cheat on him because deep down, she still wants that bad boy that will kill her eventually. so he unconciously poisons his relationship by building a wall between him and her. so he will live forever be alone, and she will be able to continue to use men and throw them away. until she gets pregnant and needs a guy that wont kill her kids. so she goes searching for the nice guy that wont build that wall. unlikely. by this time all of the men that are left are mommas boys who still live with their mom (and thats why their still single).

not that im angry about anything, or have any issues...

I've been told by more than one girl this exact line, "you are the kind of person I would marry, not date."


I cant wait for the day when I can say to them " you are the kind of person I would date not marry." And leave

apparently theres a lot of marrying without dating, i guess.

which is probably why the divorce rate is so nice these days