She broke up with me
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Originally Posted by JimmyFloyd
She is coming over tonight. i wrote her a letter and stated that I can't jsut go and be friends cause I care for her too much. She either promises me to stay true to me while she is gone (she left for financial issues, school, and to clear her head) or we no longer speak and she becomes part of my past. I know that is very black or white, but that is what I need. And I know she could do it, but I don't think she wants to. i think she is moving there for the guy more than anything, so who knows. I will update everyone on how things go tonight when she comes over to talk about the letter. She'll either be leaving here with my love, or leaving here completely erased from my life. We'll see.
most women arent worth the effort, but if you give it, i hope to god that shes one of the few that are.
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well, the break has been made. It was fairly clean, although she admitted this might be the biggest mistake of her life. Tonight I could tell she really does care for me, but she just doesn't know what to do and she thinks going away for a while will help it. Either way, i had a long talk with my roommate today beforehand and he helped me put it into perspective. I am completely fine with the way things have turned out cause that is her choice.
So... PJ...
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So... PJ...
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From: August 07 COTM....NEBF '06, CEBF '06 OHMM '06 ONBF '07 CEBF '07
Originally Posted by JimmyFloyd
yeah, it'* tough, but today I just had that I'm going to be fine epiphony. I made myself a list of things I need to get accomplished, set up a small workout program for me, and tonight I am going to finalize dates for completion.
i bought new computer parts with some of the accident money since my systems were getting older and my server is dead. (anyone got a AMD 1.3 Duron compatible Mobo for near free i could grab?)
She is coming over tonight. i wrote her a letter and stated that I can't jsut go and be friends cause I care for her too much. She either promises me to stay true to me while she is gone (she left for financial issues, school, and to clear her head) or we no longer speak and she becomes part of my past. I know that is very black or white, but that is what I need. And I know she could do it, but I don't think she wants to. i think she is moving there for the guy more than anything, so who knows. I will update everyone on how things go tonight when she comes over to talk about the letter. She'll either be leaving here with my love, or leaving here completely erased from my life. We'll see.
i bought new computer parts with some of the accident money since my systems were getting older and my server is dead. (anyone got a AMD 1.3 Duron compatible Mobo for near free i could grab?)
She is coming over tonight. i wrote her a letter and stated that I can't jsut go and be friends cause I care for her too much. She either promises me to stay true to me while she is gone (she left for financial issues, school, and to clear her head) or we no longer speak and she becomes part of my past. I know that is very black or white, but that is what I need. And I know she could do it, but I don't think she wants to. i think she is moving there for the guy more than anything, so who knows. I will update everyone on how things go tonight when she comes over to talk about the letter. She'll either be leaving here with my love, or leaving here completely erased from my life. We'll see.
Well if she'* leaving with no feelings for you, just go ahead and take your annoyances out and tell her those. It'll feel so good, like a good bowel movement
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From: North of Buffalo, NY *** NEBF '05, '06, '07 *** ***ONBF & NYBF 06; 07*** ***WCBF 06***
Geoff.... I know what you're going through.... been there/done that....still dealing with it... not that it helps you feel any better, but it happens to both men and women... someday you'll find that "right" one... but I think we have to go through the crappy relationships in order to become the people we need to be, and to truly know when the right one comes along... it'* a sucky learning process.
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You are a smart guy for breaking cleanly and avoiding the melodrama and heartache from a prolonged breakup. Wish I could offer better words then that, but it is what it is.
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Originally Posted by Jim W
You'll be alright buddy, feel free to stop over into my office, we have a barrel fun of new young ladies that have just been hired...no foolin.
Good luck to ya and good to hear you aint wallowin in sorrow.
Good luck to ya and good to hear you aint wallowin in sorrow.
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From: Somewhere different on the globe every month....
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Originally Posted by Higheremotions
I feel ya! I think I'm just gonna stick with my beautiful Bonny!
