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Old 06-05-2003, 02:42 PM   #1
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Being Twenty-Something

They call it the "Quarter-life Crisis." It is when you stop going
along with the crowd and start realising that there are many things about yourself that you didn't know and may not like. You start feeling insecure and wonder where you will be in a year or two, but then get scared because you barely know where you are now.

You start realising that people are selfish and that, maybe, those friends that you thought you were so close to aren't exactly the greatest people you have ever met, and the people you have lost touch with are some of the most important ones. What you don't recognise is that they are realising that too, and aren't really cold, catty, mean or insincere, but that they are as confused as you.

You look at your job...and it is not even close to what you thought you would be doing, or maybe you are looking for a job and realising that you are going to have to start at the bottom and that scares you.

Your opinions have gotten stronger. You see what others are doing and find yourself judging more than usual because suddenly you realise that you have certain boundaries in your life and are constantly adding things to your list of what is acceptable and what isn't. One minute, you are insecure and then the next, secure. You laugh and cry with the greatest force of your life.You feel alone and scared and confused. Suddenly, change is the enemy and you try and cling on to the past with dear life, but soon realise that the past is drifting further and further away, and there is nothing to do but stay where you are or move forward.

You get your heart broken and wonder how someone you loved could do such damage to you. Or you lay in bed and wonder why you can't meet anyone decent enough that you want to get to know better. Or maybe you love someone but love someone else too and cannot figure out why you are doing this because you know that you aren't a bad person. One night stands and random hook ups start to look cheap. Getting wasted and acting like an idiot starts to look pathetic.

You go through the same emotions and questions over and over, and talk with your friends about the same topics because you cannot seem to make a decision. You worry about loans, money, the future and making a life for yourself.....and while winning the race would be great, right now you'd just like to be a contender!

What you may not realise is that everyone reading this relates to it. We are in our best of times and our worst of times, trying as hard as we can to figure this whole thing out

Deep huh?
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Where did you find that? ...or did yours truley have an intelectual brain spasm? It seems just a little too true in some places....


BTW: I'm 25
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Wow...where did that come from?! Very well said (I'm almost 23 and my husband is 25, so we get it). Bravo!
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going on *cough*28*cough* in less than a month, and have to wonder if that is why I am moving again and starting a new job, Hmmmmm.
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going on *cough*28*cough* in less than a month, and have to wonder if that is why I am moving again and starting a new job, Hmmmmm.
I thought you were just running from the RCMP? lol
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That is very true. Only I've been going thru that since the end of high school.
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Truth makes you feel vulnerable.
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Make it stop!
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Sorry, this old fart couldn't help reading your deep thoughts.

It really doesn't change much with age........and I've got 20 years on you.
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OMG!!! After reading that I think I should stop getting wasted and acting like an idiot
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