One of the members in my club brings his gf every so often. She is like 5'7, 130lbs, caremel skinned with neck lenght hair. She'* kinda cute. I remember seeing her in the winter time but never mind her because I was still married for one and two I knew of her as my members girl. Yesterday we talked and she has been telling me stuff I never thought to hear for the exeption from someone else.

She said that the only reason she actually come out to the club and kick-it with us is because of me. She said that she has been noticing me for a while. I told her "yeah right". She says, " I have been" and blushes. But she is 18 years old soon to be 19 this Friday. Told me she'* a big freak and at the same time wants to be in a relationship. But still she is with her bf. The dumb part is that she told me that he is still messing around with his baby momma and other girls. She is to dumb to leave him but she is willing to if I said yes to us being together. What the hell do you all think? She is cool ppl, but I just don't know about being good friends to her like that.

Told me she'* a big freak ......ummmm a big freak? like > freak
or > coo-coo freak?
Ya really want to tread on another members territory ?
When she states that she is *-I-N-G-L-E, then maybe make the move.....but not until..

Signed, Dear Abby

more so rated r-x freak. i won't do nothing yet anyway until i see where her head is at least. then again her age is like a problem too. i am 25 and she is 19.

Red flags man...stay away, she has to make a decision in her own life before she becomes a part of yours.

Its a real testament to her character and integrity if she wants to maintain a some kind of friendship with her and yet remain with her boyfriend. Just be careful.

I have been down this rode once in college and twice in high school. Let them make the decisions.

good, i hate making decisions like tthis. i can wait.

Girls come along and knock you down, its all about how you pick yourself up and carry on from there. Good luck

The fall is sometimes really good, as long as you maintain control and at least one foot planted on solid earth

This is something I haven't been through in a long time and not very often do a female tell me that I am attractive or cute looking. She claim that she was trying to get me to notcie her but I wasn't. I told her why. She understood. But she still wants me to get with her.

Exercise control and be smart. Thats all I can suggest

i got it.

yes i agree...play it smart...very smart!