Jake:
At 31 years young you have the excellent opportunity to make the change and make a difference

I try to remember something my Dad told me what I graduated high school and was deciding where to go to college. He said when its all said and done just remember to work to live not to live to work. Work is what you do so you can afford to do whatever it is that you do when you arent working. You should enjoy what you do for a living but its not your life..

As far as what I wanna be when I grow up..just as good a dad as mine was for me..

EDIT** My dad was active duty Navy for 20 years. Thank you for your service, too!