I'm poor , fat and ugly, and I need a shower Did I mention I'm poor

well, if you don't like the story.....turn the page. Try to get a better paying job, take a shower, and rethink the wardrobe, hairstyle or whatever. Accentuate the positive.

Beauty is in the eye of the beholder. And looks aren't all their cracked up to be anyways. I once dated a drop dead gorgeous man and he turned out to be the WORST nightmare of my life. I like a man with a great personality and sense of humor. Hang in there.

Oh crap this books pages are glued together I'm just having a bad month. I work at a community college, which is great, however Pennsylvanias cost of living is the highest I have seen other than NYC. The fiances lost her marbles from working 40 hours 3rd shift at a sheetz gas station, I get nagged at more than usual, the son is in his terrible twos, oh god he is pure evil these days. I am - 25 and growing in my account, hoping the landlord waits to cash the rent check.Cleared my savings to pay bills, the money in savings was suppost to go to me and my other getting married. I gained all 40 lbs I lost last summer. My cell phone bill once again went up. My cable goes up $20 bucks this month. I can't get down to see my dad and stepmom (stepmom is recovering from cancer) in WV. Oh man, I wish I had money for beer.!!! Oh yeah The only this I can fix is taking a nice hot shower when I get home

Some days are worse then others...and its spring time!

Keep yer chin up Dan.

Okay, now that we have some specifics we can start analyzing your situation. You first need to look at any expenses you can cut down on like if you have movie channels switch to basic for now, Any extras on the cell phone? like internet, etc? Your fiancee just needs your love and support and just an ear to listen to her day. Just don't offer suggestions on how to fix it because that is not what she needs. She just needs to vent. As far as the 2 year old- buy some duct tape and attach him to a ceiling fan (just kidding) The time will go buy quickly-this is what memories are made of. Take notes and blackmail him later when he starts dating. As far as the weight gain- try walking cuz it is the best excercise and your fiance might like to go with you if possible and you can have some great heart to heart talks.
Last but not least, don't buy the beer and save the money for a trip to see your folks. It will all work out you'll see.

yea but you still are our Chairman (Pennsylvania Bonneville Club)

that has to cheer you up

Hang in there my friend! I could bore you with MANY stories of my misery too (both past and current) but it wont cheer you up. Just remember this, no matter WHAT happens, you will NOT be here in this place forever. There will never be another TODAY and its OK to be where you are right this second. Things wont be like this forever.

heep your head up and be postive take one day at a time

It'll get better...I promise. You still have people who love you, and that'* the base of what counts. Think HAPPY thoughts...

--Christine

Just remember there'* always some schmuck out there that has it worse.

At least you arent in jail.