I feel used now. The girl never called me back after yesterday. I thought she was but never did. i am not calling her no more, she don't know what she is missing

I think someone need to go to the bar, and 'practice' (Not that!!---talking to girls).

THAT'* the spirit

--Christine

READ THIS. First of all let me tell you that everything will work out fine. You WILL find someone. This will help you feel better: I am 20 yes 20 and have never had a girlfriend. Reason #1. I have ADHD and created a BAD reputation when i was in high school.
Reason #2. I have been abused verbaly by my family since I was born.
Reason #3. I have this weird perception that ALL girls hate me.

Many more reasons but I didn't care until 2 years ago and now the things that made me happy no longer do. Now the only way I could be happy is being with a girl. I can't shake it, and to think I can barely make eye contact with a girl. I beleive that i'm in for a lot of misery. I could go on. As for loss of sleep, down NyQuil lots of NyQuil. LOL J/K

sighhhh, men and women, This topic could be debated for a LONG LONG time and still be in the same place we are right now. I was/am very shy around women and didnt date a lot, thats probably what led me to marry young. It hasnt been easy but luckily we have a few things in common, so that probably helps.

You might ask yourself the following.

Are you lonely (this is probably a duh question)

Is a woman going to help that lonleyness?

Do you have a problem being yourself and letting your guard down around women (I do)

Would you feel better giving yourself a break to find yourself?

Do you feel incomplete without a significant other (be careful here..I have felt incomplete while MARRIED and thats an even worse feeling.

I have a feeling that in your circle of friends...you are known as the dependable one who is always willing to listen, go the extra mile to help someone. Take some time for you, my friend and get to know yourself

well if u want u can kick it with me i got a lot female friends i can introduce u and u can get ur practice on holla back and let me know

let me know and im there

i quit!!! sorry for this. i am through talking to her and women for a while. this is not for me.

if girls think your not interested, they'll like you even more, if you seem desperate, your to "easy" (not like that!) and they'll move on to a challenge

I've heard that before and beleive its a myth. One of my friends talkes to girls all the time and they love it, so much that in the past year 4 girls have asked him out. I just sit and say nothing(shyness) looking totally not interested so I get no interest. I only know of one person which showing no interest worked for him, and the girls he had only wanted to sleep around and thats not my type.