No...it wouldn't be stalkerish if you explained it to her just as you did to us.

But....BUT....and this is the real issue....you should be comfortable enough with Angie to tell her just like you did us .... if you contact this chic behind Ang'* back...then it'* wrong....even if nothing ever happened between you two, you would be acting as though something did. '

Act guilty = guilty in the Court of Love.

Honesty, communication, and understanding are necessary ingredients in all relationships...but especially in our personal lives.... hiding the stupid little things can cause big problems. I would think, "...geesh! If he hid this from me...what ELSE is he hiding?"

...if you feel this would cause a problem between you and Ang...then don't contact Ms. Super Engineer.

I'm a pretty honest guy, I understand relationships and the importance of preserving them. As much as I quipped at PJ, I agree with you, as with Bill and Peej.

I have nothing to hide and no real interest in rekindling a friendship.

The whole situation interested me as a coincidental occurance I guess.

That is what I was gonna say also!!! Leave the girl in the past. Angie may say she is okay with it but deep down you will have hurt her feelings more than you would ever know. Just be glad for her and enjoy Angie and forget the past- that'* why they call it history.

If you see her mom again, Id say ask for an email address and just send a friendly hello. There isnt much wrong with that. You can never have too many friends. Your crush was so long ago that it shouldnt matter to your current g/f. If it does to her, then thats her since it would be insecurity. Im pretty sure you love/like your current g/f so there shouldnt be a problem catching up.

Quip away, you know I can take it.

I've learned that much

Damn, that'* quite the resume.


... I intend to further a couple years and a Bachelor'* in (Mechanical) Engineering after my 3 year diploma.


Advantages of doing that instead of just four years of degree stuff:

- hands on work++ = experience, university is a little too much theory for my tastes...

- $$$: it'* "easier" such that I can maintain a higher GPA; renew my scholarship, save money. Still can get a bachelor'* degree without being in as much debt. If I fail at the full on degree, I can still fall back on a really nice job as a technologist. The magnitude of my high school marks meant that I probably would've survived university just fine... but reading a book and then getting a degree doesn't float my boat too well, I wanna DO ****

- I have a long way to go... but so far I'm loving every minute of it. Jim, you told me before I went to Sheridan that it was a great place... and I totally agree. I went into my high school today to pick up some diploma paperwork, and it was really nostalgic even though I've been gone only a few months - but it just wasn't the same.



Unfortunately, there'* the double-standard thing here in life, the way things are PERCEIVED influences a lot. Sober second thought can come around and neutralize this double standard mentality, but there'* still going to be that initial moment in which there might be some... "guilt" in the aforementioned Court Of Love. And for that alone, I dunno if you should follow through with the contact, it'* a tough call.



just my 2psi of b00st.

go and hook up with her

then ask for a little more

IF Jim was a single guy. Having met and knowing both him and Angie, I'd slap him if he did that

I'm smarter then I look, repin is right, I would most welcome his slaps (as well as several kicks) if I ever effed up what I have with Angie.