Guys....Do you cry?
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Think on it a few days. If you still love him then you can work it out but I'd have his tail in a vice. No cell phone, paycheck goes to me to handle money, no nites out w/o you. He'* violated your trust and it will be long earning it back. Do not go joint on a house until after your married or have a lawyer handle the paperwork with an eventual splitup in mind. Theres nothing worse then getting stuck with a huge house/car payement and no way to pay.
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Re: Guys....Do you cry?
Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
Ok When you have dated a girl for 4 1/2 months and she breaks up with you do you get all upset and cry and beg her not to break up with you? :?
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Re: Guys....Do you cry?
Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
Ok When you have dated a girl for 4 1/2 months and she breaks up with you do you get all upset and cry and beg her not to break up with you? :?
He has already proven to you that you can not trust him, and when another female enters the equasion, it will always be difficult to forgive and trust him again. All you will do is fight and argue about the past (The other Girl).
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I have told him 900 times I dont wanna be with him and he still doesnt get it....I've been on the phone with him over an hour...no matter how mean I am he still wants to try
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when i broke up wiht my gf of a little over 4mths b4 i went to school, i cried. i wanted to stay together but things were kinda gettin sour. i dont think we were ready for how involved the relationship got. im thinkin about trying to get back with her 
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Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
I have told him 900 times I dont wanna be with him and he still doesnt get it....I've been on the phone with him over an hour...no matter how mean I am he still wants to try
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Guys are dense. That'* the easiest way to put it. You can try to be nice and end it gently, but until a guy hears "it'* over, i don't want any part of your life, do not contact me again," you'll be dealing with this. Don't enable him to contact you anymore, if you truely want this to be over and have him out of your life, you need to put closure to it for HIM and make it clear that you do not want him in your life. Don't answer his calls, don't answer his IMs, cut him off from your life if you want him out of yours.
If it comes down to it, get a restraining order against him. Harsh punishment, but effective. Obsessed ex-gfs have taught me a lot.
If it comes down to it, get a restraining order against him. Harsh punishment, but effective. Obsessed ex-gfs have taught me a lot.
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Re: Guys....Do you cry?
Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
Ok When you have dated a girl for 4 1/2 months and she breaks up with you do you get all upset and cry and beg her not to break up with you? :?
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Originally Posted by CSFiend
Guys are dense. That'* the easiest way to put it. You can try to be nice and end it gently, but until a guy hears "it'* over, i don't want any part of your life, do not contact me again," you'll be dealing with this. Don't enable him to contact you anymore, if you truely want this to be over and have him out of your life, you need to put closure to it for HIM and make it clear that you do not want him in your life. Don't answer his calls, don't answer his IMs, cut him off from your life if you want him out of yours.
If it comes down to it, get a restraining order against him. Harsh punishment, but effective. Obsessed ex-gfs have taught me a lot.
If it comes down to it, get a restraining order against him. Harsh punishment, but effective. Obsessed ex-gfs have taught me a lot.
Ms. Sixty, if you'd like to talk to me about it IRL, I'm gonna need your phone number (via PM) again. I losteded it...
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Originally Posted by Ms. Sixty
Here'* the story...our "relationship" has been based on a lie. He has lied to me about stuff on his credit report (we were tryin to get a house) so we couldnt get a house because he has a bankruptcy and 3 car repo'*. So Then I find this phone number on his cell and its a girl when I call...he'* been in contact with his ex because he owes her $1100. She told me he told her I knew about her...He NEVER told me....then some girl Im'd him on yahoo and asked to meet up with him.....now he cant stop spending money when he says he has been saving it to get a house....
I'm tryin to break up with him and I've told him that I dont wanna be with him and I'm tired of giving him chances and all he does is cry and get upset and beg me not to leave him and he still thinks we are together.....
I am so tired of this!
I'm tryin to break up with him and I've told him that I dont wanna be with him and I'm tired of giving him chances and all he does is cry and get upset and beg me not to leave him and he still thinks we are together.....
I am so tired of this!