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Old 03-28-2004, 02:03 PM   #1
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Its hhard now for me to do this because I havent been with someone in a long time. i went out and took a young lady to Red Lobster. I almost went broke(yeah right). The thing is that what she was wearing damn near made me ignore what she was talking to me about. Hormones are rising and knowing the fact that we are just friends, I can touch her, yet . But anyway, if your thinking to say"Tell her to wear something less reavealing or not showing so much curves", its not going to work. Her body will make a jogging uit look sexy and attractive. HELP ME!!!!!!!!!! I want to see her again, not scare her away.
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Treat her as an EQUAL. She'* human, just like you. Go into it with the mindset that this will be the only date, and nothing further is expected. You'll make the most of the date that way.
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Preoccupied, huh? There is a way to avoid that, but I won't say it.
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Preoccupied, huh? There is a way to avoid that, but I won't say it.
Its not the remedy from "There'* something about Mary" is it????
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I'm not gunna say...
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I thought so.
Steve- you have been given enough advice from this club to know to be yourself, don't rush things, and just have fun with her. Make her laugh and you just might win her heart. Who knows, stranger things have happened.
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Alight Steve all u got to do is stop thinking about it. Thats whats wrong with it ur always thinking a little bit too hard about things just let the moment flow thats all we have told u as much as we can so all u can do now is take what we have told u apply it to ur current situation
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Preoccupied, huh? There is a way to avoid that, but I won't say it.
Its not the remedy from "There'* something about Mary" is it????
Ha! Thats exactly where I was going with this!
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hopefully she wont need any gel though
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Steve, what you have to do, is simply be cool. The second you try to hard, or come off as uncomfortable, its going to rub off on her. I know its been tough for ya, but now is your chance to shake off the dust and try anew.

Confidence in a guy is what a girl finds sexy in my experience, the second you feel good about yourself, it will show. I'm tellin ya, next time you two hook up, clean up the car, look good, smile, laugh. Make her feel good, cuz chances are she'll be putting in an effort too.

And hey, good luck bro
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