guys im sorry...but i gotta say somethin-this has been the worst year yet. i understand that ther are people who have it worse but that doesnt make it easier. Ill keep it short-
okie dokie---so at the beginning of 07, i found out i was moving to texas--not so great, but not that bad ---yet Then, i finally get to go out with my first true love (I dont take tht word lightly) I would have given her anything she wanted, seriously for three years i wanted to go out with her, i would have gone to the ends of the earth for this girl-no joke.So before we decide to go out, i ask her if she'* willin to put up with me movin away--she said that without a doubt that she wanted to stay with me---one monthafter i moved she broke up---i still cant get over it guys....its like a bad dream....

so cuz i had no friends or job--my summer sucked, me and my parents fuaght, i finally get to go to school now only to find thatt my transcripts have been effed up and i have to as of right now, repeat a bunch of classes and take a freshman course my senior year--not that its bad enough i dont get to spend it in MY school with my friends. but it seems like all these other things are happening--nothing good and to top it all off---all i come home to after all this **** is my mom complainen that my room isnt clean and how am i supposed to goto work tomarow if my bike is destroyed? (happened ofn the way home)---sry guys---i just wanna kno wat God'* got goin on up ther...why the **** am i all asudden the worlds bitch?

like i said, i kno people have bigger prob. and i dont mean to insult them or seem like a pity party, just had to tell someone

well man sorry to hear that, i had kidna the same problem when i was in highschool had a girl i had a crush on for about 4 years i was shy so yeh nothing. i fianly asked her out we went out for about 1 year. than i had to move. from cali to oregon :( mab things just happen. the way you gota look at it is that its making you ready for the future things like that just happen. part of life "god" is not picking on you nore anyone else thigns will turn around.

$h!+ Happens man what more can I say....


I should have had my house built and paid fro by the end of next month things have really sucked with the way to dollar is, I have a baby coming, and I'll be renting for 6 months since my mother still lives in my house since her'* won't be built till next spring.


So today to help cure my depression I went out and Bought myself a new toy... Well I bought it the other say but you know what I mean...


When someone throws $h!+ in your face eat it or throw it back. What doesn't kill you will in the end make you stronger.

You can look at it your way....

Or you could meet a new girl..that'* local and is a better person than the last one. Get the bike fixed..room cleaned and things could be looking 100% better by the end of the day.

The choice in life is to rant and holler or get things done and smile.

Wow Boosty!! Those are some profound words there.

I have to agree. I know it sucks but life sucks. Here'* the catch- It'* all what you make of it. You can feel sorry for yourself...we all do that for a little while but then we pick ourselves up and dust ourselves off and continue. We all go through peaks and valleys and this is just your turn. Something good will come out of the situation but you need to take care of business, clean up your room young man, get to work, and just keep going. You will find the right person for you. I know you really wanted things to work out with that girl but she wasn't the right one for you. At least you found out early on instead of down the road with kids and a mortgage.

Get on with life.

Yes, sometimes it sucks but you will live to love again.

It'* just not fair

No, it isn't.

and it never will be.
Life if tough......and then you die.

Get over it.

We feel for ya.

Doood, right now this sucks. But I'm a firm believer that everything happens for a reason and if you perservere you will actually come out better in the end. I had a similar situation where I thought I was in love with a girl...turned out to be more like infatuation than love (she had everything a young man could want - big *****, nice body, and big *****...I can't remember much else). I joined the Air Force so we could get married and after got my first duty assignment and moved, she married my best friend (imagine a particular song by the Cars playing in the background). Years later, he'* still one of my best friends, she headed down the road on him, and I wound up with a much better girl that I just celebrated 25 years with.


And yet another true story from Stan'* book of life: My youngest daughter wrecked my very nice 93 SSE in January of this year. I was crushed. Now I'm driving a pink (once black) 2003 SSEi. How can that be bad? I'm better off now than I was then!

Want any more examples of how something that sucks now can turn in to a fortuitous event? I'm sure there'* plenty of examples from other members here. Just ask.

In the meantime, it'* OK (and normal) to be unhappy about your current situation, just don't let it consume you. This is nothing you have control over so you need to buck up and move on. Yeah, easy for me to say and probably not what you want to hear. But it'* the truth.

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no stan--i kno..its wierd....but thanks guys.....a good nights rest and a good day has turned things around. ya, i had to drop auto class to retake some others since they couldnt fix everything....but u kno wat? it aint bad at all---ther downright easy and i get off at like 1:15 so. as for the girl thing...uhh well...i met someone pretty cool today, kept her luaghin for an hour strait so we'll see. and my bike...haha well theres a funny story, wen i popped my tire at 10 at night in a church parking lot, i decided that it would be a nice time to vent. so i started beating the **** out of it (it was crappy to begin with) i can only imagine wat people driven by wer thinken.....

anyways, thanks alot guys!!!!


oh and stan---it was love...not bein a smart *** or anything---its a long story...but im 100% it was love

Glad you are feeling better today and already sseing things better. Believe me, we all have times when we just need to vent and get the words out. That'* where this forum (and others like it probably) can be of help.

As to your being in love with her, I don''t doubt it. It'* important though that the object (person) of your love has similar feelings for you, otherwise it'* doomed sooner or later. In this case, it'* probably better that it was sooner.

ya, much better now than two years from now.---idk...she said she did, but she is more focused on school and stuff...and i think that maybe just didnt want that in her life rigght now.