chat room
Does anyone go to the chat room that is set up? I have been there a couple of times and no one is there. Just wondering if it is a dead idea or just hasnt taken hold yet? :?:
Everyone runs when you come in. It'* not because of you, it'* us. We got real comfortable with the old crowd, and typically chat naked. Having never seen you before (in there), we run for the hills.
i think the problem is that people will peek in, if noone is there then they leave, i think almost everyone is doing this, if people just signed in and stayed there, i think the likelyhood of it being larger is much greater
Wait the server locked me out and said Critical Error and that was just for posting messages in one of the forums .A busy chat room would kill this site. I am curious..this site must not have a dedicated server. Hey its free so who cares?
http://www.bonnevilleclub.com/forum/...r=asc&start=60
I doubt it, let me make some observations and some suggestions.
First it'* the holidays and while I am certainly an advocate of the chat room I would rather people spend time with their families over the holidays rather than spend it in a chat room, there is plenty of idle time in our lives for a chat room, priorities being what they are.
Second, people are social animals, no one likes going in a chat room alone but yet if no one is there no one else will show up, it takes someone being in the chat room for others to join.
Third, if you do go in alone it may take more than 3 minutes for others to see you and join themselves.
Fourth, if you do see someone in the chat room and you join and say hello and they don't answer you right away don't leave right away, wait a while for them to come back to the computer. More often than not I go into the chat room alone and then go about my business doing chores or watching TV etc someone will come in say say Hello and if I don't respond within the next few seconds they leave.
The point I am making if you are the only person in the chat room and have a little patience and stay a while others will see you on-line and join you, when I see only one person in the chat room I will go in at least to say Hi.
First it'* the holidays and while I am certainly an advocate of the chat room I would rather people spend time with their families over the holidays rather than spend it in a chat room, there is plenty of idle time in our lives for a chat room, priorities being what they are.
Second, people are social animals, no one likes going in a chat room alone but yet if no one is there no one else will show up, it takes someone being in the chat room for others to join.
Third, if you do go in alone it may take more than 3 minutes for others to see you and join themselves.
Fourth, if you do see someone in the chat room and you join and say hello and they don't answer you right away don't leave right away, wait a while for them to come back to the computer. More often than not I go into the chat room alone and then go about my business doing chores or watching TV etc someone will come in say say Hello and if I don't respond within the next few seconds they leave.
The point I am making if you are the only person in the chat room and have a little patience and stay a while others will see you on-line and join you, when I see only one person in the chat room I will go in at least to say Hi.
lmao...oh now I see what is going on around here...all you guys only want to see the usual naked ppl huh? You should just post NO NEW NAKEDS ALLOWED!!!!!!
I can see if everyone just peeks in and then leaves how no one will ever be there..and also I guess that at least this way you can do things in between pming ppl.
I can see if everyone just peeks in and then leaves how no one will ever be there..and also I guess that at least this way you can do things in between pming ppl.



