Change the mounts and go from there, you will have a hard time selling it if the engine is bouncing around anyways.That may fix your whole problem and you can keep it.

i just went shopping around...there are several GXP models in the area ( cause thats all im going for) and it will STILLL after alll that ive put into the 2001, its still less money keeping it. then buying new.

im gonna have the guy monday get her on a lift and take a look around. "fix it and send me the bill" lol

I'll let you all know what the outcome is, maybe it might be useful in the longrun for other members. if all this is a motor mount or whatever.