I tracked down why the A/C doesn't engage now... I pushed on the compressor connector (one with 2 wires) and it finally kicked the compressor on... let go and it disengages.

Bad thing is I pulled the connector and found no way to remove the wires (appears to be sealed in the connector) How in the world would I find a replacement connector?

Try cleaning the connectors on the compressor best you can and spray contact cleaner on the plug. That might help. Otherwise they should have new connectors at Auto Parts Fast at RockAuto You will need to solder the new connector on.