Well the problem seemed to be the exhaust leak..I took it to midas and they reparied the leak in the cat converter and also replaced coil #3, so no more ses light and the car runs great thanks for all your help sorry I am such a pain.

glad to hear its fixed by the way your not a pain just need to let us know what works and what don't and take things one at a time hang in there buddy we'll get you fixed up yet

I am as excited as a school girl on prom night now!! It all runs perfect now...they replaced the coil #3 which if I am not mistaken is spark plugs 3 and 4 I think,.but the code was showing a misfire on #3...and they sealed the leak on the cat converter and the car runs smooth and quite...and no ses light...so I am extactic...thanks for all your advice guys..now I just need to replace the LIM gasket and I will be all set...I got a mechanic that I shopped around for to do it for 350.

$350 isnt bad that includes the new aluminum gaskets? valve cover gaskets and such?

Yes that includes new gasket aluminum and parts and labor.

not a bad deal

Outstanding!!

Woo Hoo!!! Get that LIM fixed and you'll be golden!

Yes I also had the mechanic check the hub bearing on the wheels and he said they were fine and not needed to be replaced. Also the rear shocks needs to be redone or new ones put on that is what the thud from the back end is doing. But other then that it drives good and no SES light I am happy. Oh and fix the air mix actuator which will be a pain becuase the dash needs to come out. Also the LIM Gasket ones I get some money saved up.