I know didn't find the "one till they were like 50+ and now couldn't be happier
If I have to wait till 50 I will commit myself to the psych ward, or shoot myself. lol
Anyways, thanks guys (and girl) for all the comments. Usually I am the one doing the commenting and not posting things like this, but I figured why not. I am the counselor, its what I do professionally, but I thought I would see what people had to say. As to those offering advice and some criticizing it, I have learned there are no rules, what works, works, not all the time, not some of the time, but if it works the one time for the right person, then it works. This includes myspace, eharmony, whatever else. If someone finds the One, then who can mock it. I just haven't found what works for me yet, and/or the timing of it to work.
Some of you had some really good things to say, I could quote them but it would make this post longer then it already is. I just have never dated much, had one long term relationship, I am a nice guy, know how to treat girls, to the point no one can understand why I am single. But I am, ok enough venting on the forum, sorry guys.