Before I go....does anyone have to deal with a VERY jealous person every day? Like to the point where you ditch everyone in your life just to keep it at a minimum? Probably not...just stupid girls, right....sorry....just ignore this....never mind and such, I'm just depressed. See everyone later-ish. *hugs*

Why, as a matter of fact I AM available!

Oh, that wasn't the question, sorry

Serious Bill:
A limited amount of Jealousy in a relationship is a necessity. It tells both people that there'* still something there. Any more than this little amount acts as a deterrent.

The jealousy thing goes both ways, boys and girls - one of my best friends at work just broke off his engagement to a girl who was constantly on him for wanting to go out with friends from work (female) - she put up a stink when he wanted to go out, just once in a great while, but it was no problem if she wanted to take off at will. Turns out she was cheating on him anyway. Damn gold-digging wench....
ANYWAY....As a guy I could never stand when other guys did that to their women....for crying out loud, they're girlfriends, not pets, you don't keep them on a leash.... Most everyone commands some trust, and deserve a little space of their own once in awhile. If you don't get any, TAKE it. If he can't deal with it, well then, maybe it'* time to move on....

Damn! You ARE almost as old as me!
Wise in the ways of the world.....well put.

I have to say, most everything in my life I've had to learn the hard way (thick head, you know ) but that'* just common sense to me.
I'm at the other extreme - I take too MUCH free space, so much so that my wife deserves a medal...or sainthood....

My husband is kinda like that...he goes out all the time. Has to see friends...has to go here, go there....I don't mind...it'* alone time. But he gets so irritated when I want to go out. He says he doesn't mind, but the only time he really doesn't mind is when I go somewhere with my mom. I don't know.

OK.. we need another off topic forum called relationship sux.. my relationship with my car is way better.. goes when I want.. stays when I want.. does what I say.. and only complains if something is wrong with her.. ha ha ha... ok so the car doesnt keep the bed warm.. but o well...you take some, you loose some...

Paging doctor Ruth... pagin Doctor Ruth

I don't think Dr. Ruth will make it today. Get a big dog....that'll keep the bed warm. Problem solved.

Yea.. but with a big dog.. it drools too much... kinda reminds me of one of my ex'*.. ha ha haa...ha

Ah, drool is a turn-off. Noted. ha ha ha. I think I need more coffee....some sort of pick-me-up.