My grandmother wakes me up thus mornig and tells me that my ex-wife is on the phone. I tell my grandmother to tell her I'm sleep. Somehow my ex convinced my grandma to give me the phone anyway. So I pick up the phone and the first thing that comes out her mouth is, "What the hell is wrong with you?" I then hang up. She call back 3 times after that. I hung up all 3 times. It all start off From last year when she puts blame on me for eveything. I was driving trucks , my license got suspended and needed to find work elsewhere. Let me jump down a little further. From the conversation we had on Saturday, she tells me some strange stuff, that she wants a man that she dreams about that fits 99.2% of her interest. I guess Im not the one. She starts descibing it and the only thing that comes in mind is that if she get her ideal guy and if he get in some kind of accident will she still be with him if it was real serious. Another, we talked about kids. She has 1, I don't. baCK IN '99 SHE was pregnant by me then have an abortion in March. Four months later we werent together, but she gets pregnant again. She keeps baby. We got back together in September of '01, get married April '02 she gets pregnant by me in July, then she claims a miscarrage. I was veery sad, but moved on. Why the hellshe said that was a lie Saturday and said that she had an abortion? All because she knows me, and that I would be there for the child and don't want that kind of attachment from me. Then she says that if she did keep the child that she would give the youngest one to me because the 3 year old is her favorite one. Out of the little that I just told you I went through can someone explain why she call me back? Saturdy I hung up on her after she told me she had an abortion when I asked her the question. She tries calling baack arbout 4 times, yesterday 3 times this morning three. Picture this as well., she also says that she wish she said no when we were at the alter, I am not her ideal guy from what she is saying, and she tell me that she don't have feelings fo me anymore. Why do she still bother me and she is from what I understand is talking to someone else? Also the confession I have here it is, the real insedent comes from me trying to take myself out, not me missing a driver that ran a stop sign. We got into a real bad fight and to this day I regret it! www.cardomain.com/id/pontiacfan78 I have been through so much stuff that I don't car what happens! I wish I could get my wife back because of the good qualities she have but the other stuff? NOOOOO! I think shes Satan in disguise.

my 2 cents is, she'* ruining your life. so move on and let her ruin the perfect guys life

I am trying too. A couple of weeks ago or months ago I agreed to be friens with her but its very hard when she likes to tell me stuff about what guys try to talkto her or who she went out with. Sometimes I would ask a question testing myself to see if I could handle that. Oh no! Plus I thought she bought up a good point when she said that she tells her best freind stuff about us knowing she doesn't want to hear about me but she listens anyway and then vice-cersa about my ex-wife best friend tell her problems about her realationship problems. My wife said she didn't like it but she delt with hearing her side. I tried and its not working because I still had feelings for her until Saturday.

well keep trying man, cause people don't change. no matter how much they or you want them to they are always going to be the same. if this lady is gonna make you feel like crap then she aint worth your time.

sounds like an f'ed up realtionship. I'd steer clear of it all and live a better life. I have faith in you finding someone better man!

Just go take your car out and have fun driving to take your mind off! Yes women can be the best and the worst things we have to deal with, but more power to you!

Well.. the ex did that to me a while back ago till she got the hint.. I started cuttin her down in front of ppl since she didn't get the hint.. the old line "I don't care how she dresses.. she'* still a dead lay still" seems to work but before you jump on me and wonder how I can be so cruel.. there was no way of gettin rid of her ( as a friend ) since after we broke up.. she wanted to remain friends and was pestering just like yours is. But then they put you down and say things bout their new boyfriends too.. well.. I don't know what posessed them to do things like that.. maybe they're hurt and wants to see you and make you hurt too. As for the abortion thing.. well your ex ( much like my ex ) may have been cheatin on you, so when the baby comes out and doesn't look like you in someways.. you'll know..( plus they don't want to live with a constant reminder of being unfaithful )

Best thing is to move on.. ( again easier said than done ) and all it takes is time.. ( the bitch part again is between now and then ) and you'll be over her.. it took me a while to get over it .. but I"m so glad that I"m over her and moved on with my life.

Thanx Drifter. I hope soon that this will all go away. I can't even think a good 5 min without her popping up in my head.

Yes.. much like a smoker trying to quit ( or an alchoholic ) that will constantly pop in your head cause it'* "force of Habit" for her being around. Keep yourself occupied.. and whenever you think of her.. shake it off ( and don't dwell in it.. it'll only make it worse and take longer) think of something else like mods you want for your car.. ( I dreamt of Viper V10'* RWD, NOS, Flamethrowers and Tazers.. ) of video games or anything else that might help.

My ex was Satan in diguise too. She told me twice that she was pregnant by me. She told my whole family and ppl I worked with this AFTER I left her. It was a lie the entire time, and she ruined my rep by making everyone think I left her because she was pregnant. I later found out just how many ppl she told and I explained of her manipulative, lying lifestyle so they'd know the true story.

There'* better women out there for me, and for you. You'll find one. Till then have fun w/ your car. That'* how I got through it.