Lounge For casual talk about things unrelated to General Motors. In other words, off-topic stuff. And anything else that does not fit Section Description.

question for those who have luck with girls(or ladies that m

Thread Tools
 
Old 08-23-2004, 11:14 PM
  #1  
Member
Posts like a V-Tak
Thread Starter
 
98SSEIsilver's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 56
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
98SSEIsilver is on a distinguished road
Default question for those who have luck with girls(or ladies that m

ok so here is the scenerio...im 17, a senior in highschool, and i do my fair share of partying. well i have liked this girl for awhile now...we have been talking for a bit and she knows i like her. the thing is i cant tell if she is flirting with me or just being my friend(which she is but you kno)....we joke around all the time and she started getting wierd around me but sorta back to being fine now, i have asked her out a few times but she has had to work( i knew this but i still asked i dunno why) but my question is what should i do about this girl? i love her to death and would do anything for her but i dont kno if she likes me like that, she nver said to me or our other friends....please help im going crazy...thanks in advance people

peace out

ps anyone th at would love to donate some money to a injured bonny please email me at trent1506@yahoo.com she has a fat dent in the side....haha
Old 08-23-2004, 11:19 PM
  #2  
Sol
Senior Member
True Car Nut
 
Sol's Avatar
 
Join Date: Sep 2002
Posts: 8,910
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
Sol is on a distinguished road
Default

Easy... talk to her about it.

Nothing to lose.
Old 08-23-2004, 11:25 PM
  #3  
Member
Posts like a V-Tak
Thread Starter
 
98SSEIsilver's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jul 2004
Posts: 56
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
98SSEIsilver is on a distinguished road
Default

yea but i dont wanna seem like one of those wierd stalker guys by keep on asking her all this stuff...you kno what i mean
Old 08-23-2004, 11:54 PM
  #4  
Senior Member
Expert Gearhead
 
Jim W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Mississauga, Ontario
Posts: 20,893
Likes: 0
Received 1 Like on 1 Post
Jim W is on a distinguished road
Default

Simple kinda flattery works quite well. Women also appreciate the little things, like a bit of courage to approach and just have a casual discussion, drop hints about interests, but dont blatantly say to much. Gotta be tactful....

Hey the worst thing she can say is no she not interested in that kinda of relationship, then thats her loss, but you cant be all disappointed and stop communications if she sez no, just alter the nature of the relationship.

Either way, good luck I hope she rolls with jah
Old 08-24-2004, 09:22 AM
  #5  
Senior Member
True Car Nut
 
Princess Jeanie's Avatar
 
Join Date: Jan 2004
Location: Michigan
Posts: 3,978
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
Princess Jeanie is on a distinguished road
Default

I'm with the rest of the gang on talking to her. Otherwise you just don't know. I can't really offer any more insightful advice coming from the female perspective-sometimes we flirt with guys we don't like, and sometimes we ignore the guys we really really do like. You just have to talk it out.


then thats her loss
Ah...a JimW advice staple :P
Old 08-24-2004, 09:41 AM
  #6  
Senior Member
True Car Nut
 
SSE14U24ME's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Right in front of you
Posts: 7,965
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
SSE14U24ME is on a distinguished road
Default

Follow JimW'* advice. After all he is the resident stud muffin. He knows how to talk to the ladies.
Old 08-24-2004, 09:55 AM
  #7  
Senior Member
Expert Gearhead
 
Jim W's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2002
Location: Mississauga, Ontario
Posts: 20,893
Likes: 0
Received 1 Like on 1 Post
Jim W is on a distinguished road
Default

You know it

sez the single guy :P
Old 08-24-2004, 09:57 AM
  #8  
Junior Member
Posts like a Ricer Type-R
 
willwren's Avatar
 
Join Date: Aug 2002
Posts: 11
Likes: 0
Received 4 Likes on 4 Posts
willwren is on a distinguished road
Default

Play it cool, and put the ball in her court. Tell her you'd like to go out sometime, but you know her schedule at work is hectic, and to call you sometime.

That way she knows the door is open in case SHE wants to make the move. And don't treat her any differently if she doesn't call for a date. Put on a mature attitude.
Old 08-24-2004, 10:09 AM
  #9  
Senior Member
True Car Nut
 
SSE14U24ME's Avatar
 
Join Date: Dec 2003
Location: Right in front of you
Posts: 7,965
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
SSE14U24ME is on a distinguished road
Default

Wow, Bill- very astute advice.
Old 08-24-2004, 10:17 AM
  #10  
Senior Member
True Car Nut
 
opensourceguy's Avatar
 
Join Date: Apr 2004
Location: Three Oaks, Michigan
Posts: 4,879
Likes: 0
Received 0 Likes on 0 Posts
opensourceguy is on a distinguished road
Default

and there is the perfect answer from the pimp of the 30'* .


-justin


Quick Reply: question for those who have luck with girls(or ladies that m



All times are GMT -4. The time now is 05:43 PM.