The other night, a group of us went out to dinner for my best friends birthday. We all drank alot and were having a blast when someone all of a sudden mentioned "lets go to the strip club" everyone was all in. I walked over to my girlfriend and said they are all going to the strip club but we can just go home and watch a movie. At first she said ok, and then she came up to me and said that we can both go since my best friends wife was going too. I asked her if she was sure and she said yes. As we began walking to the door, I saw my friends wife getting into her car alone. She waved goodbye to all of us. I turned to my girlfriend and said "I guess she isn't going after all" "Do you still want to go" she said to me and I quote "well, you will probably have more fun without me, so just go ahead" I said ok and then she said to me "can I use your phone to call someone to come and pick me up?" I said why don't you just ride with my friends wife since she is going home? Then she got a huge attitude and we got into a huge fight and nobdy got to see any ***** that night! She told me that she was trying to be the cool girlfriend but she doens't like Sme going to the club. I have only been to this club 4 times in my entire life... she later told me that she knew she was wrong for telling me to go and then turning around and snapping like that. She just wanted me to say I didn't want to go, but is you look back at the beginning of the story, I did tell her i didn't want to go. So here is my question...Why do women have such a huge problem with us going to these clubs? I am not going to a sex club. I can understand that they want to feel like they are the only ones that we want, but that is not realistic. She tells me all of the time that I am the only guy that she is attracted to. I tell her that I know that is untrue. With as many good looking people as there are in the world, how could i be the only physically attractive man? Why isn't me telling her that I want to spend the rest of my life with her and our child good enough? Honestly, I just love the female body... But i would never cheat. WHAT IS WRONG WITH WOMEN?

Ask yourself if you would mine if she went to a stip joing with or without you. In other words, put yourself in her shoes. I'm not looking for an answer, just think about it.

From what I know, girls hate other girls, so if you have a girlfriend and nakedness is involved with another girl, no matter what... Your girl is going to have a problem.

And thats the way it is.

when we first met, she used to go to see the chipindales all of the time. I never cared, and I still don't. When we first got together, my friends took me their for my birthday, and she gave them money to buy me a lap dance...

where were you gonna go?
I've frequented a few in Cincy myself, but most sucked

Females point of view: Most girls think that if their b/f is going to the strip club, that they arent good enough for them. It'* a jealousy thing, your their man, and they dont want other girls all over their man. Me on the other hand, heck..go, have fun, just don't spend all your money lol.

I think theres a difference between noticing/being attracted to other women and indulging in sexual fantasies about them. Things like that probably do make her feel inferior.

I know that sometimes when my girlfriend starts going on and on about how hot a certain guy is it can make me feel a little inferior sometimes. But at the same time I know I shouldnt be threatened by it.

It is kind of a tough situation though, I say go with whatever the two of you can agree on, and be open and honest, no sense in hiding things from each other.

just wait till ya get married it only getts better!!!!!

Diamonds Caberet! its in centerville ohio. I agree though that it would make anyone feel inferior. The issue that i have with her is being honest and just leaving it at us not going but she shouldn't have told me to go and then turned around and got mad at me. And further more she used to see male strippers all of the time, and didn't used to have a problem with it but now after two years it matters.

Leslie hit it right on the nose. your GF was expecting you to give in and tell her that you would drive her home instead of going to the club. But I understand that your gf sent you a mixed message. Women do that.

I have never ever in my entire life gone to one of these strip clubs. Not because my gf would give me hell about it, but I just cant see wasting my hard earned money to be teased with something I could never have lol.

But on a serious note, this sounds very similar to me and my GF when she caught me looking at ****

She got VERY upset and we had a big fight over it. Her claim was that if I looked at other naked women, then she wasnt good enough and I was desiring other women when she should be all that I ever wanted and needed

Anyways, I hope everything works out.

Unfortunately, this will not be the last time you guys may argue over this.